Oh I know- all I anted was someone to help for the week ds4 was born, all I got was 3 case reports with 'Mum is intelligent and caring' written in every box, and a suggestion to place DS1 (8 and very aggressive) with a normal childminder when toddlers were present.
I now have zero contact by choice, but as DH has had mental health issues at times consider myself to have been well shite upon (but Dh is well now thank God)