Quite Brefugee
He was fine just being who he is. And was accepted for that. How wouldn’t he be?
But by pointing out differences/otherness to me just say that he doesn’t see himself as anything other than other.
And though he might be a wee bit of a quirky dresser with the harness creations - he is just the same as the rest of us. He’s not ‘other’ to me and I would imagine to a lot of folk on this thread.
By highlighting small differences in how we are or how we present ourselves, it just says to me that we don’t see ourselves as just the same as everyone. How not? Either that or we want to highlight how special we are compared to everyone else.
Everyone is the bloody same.
We all get born, live and die. We are all the same.
Wearing nail varnish and big earrings isn’t special. You could as well be Bet Lynch or me in the 80s. Or my mate who used to do the same but also in in his kilt worn over jeans, a blouse and a wwII flying jacket. This isn’t new.
He wasn’t speeching about otherness and difference in the 80s and beyond. He was his own self and rocked it. Which is all we ever need to do.