re Catherine and Ryan
She has always been hard on him. Sort of not only did I have to take you on, the son of the man I hate, but you might turn out bad as well.
As someone said up thread, Clare is the one who is more caring.
Its almost like Catherine hates Ryan, not just because of Becky but because she now organises her life around being his (grand)parent.
She is after all very judgemental about everyone, family, colleagues, criminals!
For instance she decided he shouldn't be told about his mother . Then in a recent episode he was asking what had happened, she was adamant that she knew it was better he wasn't told and should just trust her. And was angry enough that he hadn't just accepted what she said about TLR, that she threw Ryan out of the house.
I said in one of the threads talking about rewatching series 1 and 2, she must be impossible to live with. She is quick to say what other people do wrong, but never seems to reflect on what she might have done wrong.
This is the world through Catherine's eyes. And you better learn to go with it.