I find it interesting that we automatically think that Kate, if she did do it, did it to protect her girls from him. Not to hurt him. But if he did it then he did so to hurt Kate.
I am trying to think of how much nurturing we have seen from Kate.
Carol called through to say 'the girls are asking after you' when she was smoking a spliff with Jess.
Carol said 'someone should have been with her' to Tom (not Kate) on the beach when little one fell over.
She was not exactly nice to the girls in the car before the crash, and drove them knowing she had drunk alcohol.
They always did bath time together - that suggests Tom was more involved than most Dads I know.
Any excuse to get out of the house - she was more than happy to leave the kids with Dad.
After the crash she was not with the children. If that has happened to my kids I would not have left their side for a second. Very odd behaviour.
Tom is the one seen interacting with the kids most. They clearly love him.
Any thoughts?