I didn't think Ross was all that 'God fearing', which is why he had doubts about Demelza's brothers and their preaching at first. I've been having a skim through the books to refresh my memory of the bits the tv series has missed out (so I can annoy Dh with my grumbling
), and there's a part in The Black Moon where Demelza actually asks him what he thinks and he makes quite a speech of it. I've just been back and looked it up.
"What are your religious views, Ross? Do you have any I wish I knew." "Oh - practically none, my love." He stared into the sulky fire. "I imbibed from my father a sceptical attitude to all religions; he considered them foolish fairy-tales. But I don't go so far as that. I have little use for religion as it is practised, or for astrology, or for belief in witchcraft or omens of good or ill-luck. I think they all stem from some insufficiency in men's minds, perhaps from a lack of a willingness to feel themselves utterly alone. But now and then I feel that there is something beyond the material world, something we all feel intimations of but cannot explain. Underneath the religious vision there is the harsh fundamental reality of our lives, because we know we must live and die as the animals we are. But sometimes I suspect that under that harsh reality there is a further vision, still deeper based, that comes nearer to true reality than the reality we know."
"Hm," said Demelza, rocking gently. "I am not sure that I know what you mean but I think I do." "When you are fully conversant with it," Ross said, "pray explain it to me." She laughed.
This was after Demelza had asked about letting her brothers build a church on their land and Ross wasn't too keen at first thinking it 'an awkward favour to be asked'.
I agree it's not really 'anti-religious feeling' though. I think it's more to do with Ross's restless and sceptical personality and I suppose he's seen more of the world than most of the locals so he's bound to have some different views on such things. He's still happy to go to weddings etc and have his children christened.