I found most of your comments quite offensive, Thediet.
However, once I was free from him and out of his clutches, I realised he had nothing on me and after that, my response was very different. I found my voice and my strength to face up to him. It was in light of this that I was dissappointed at the women being portrayed as feeble
Well good for you. For others the effects of DV remain with them even after the perpetrator has stopped and been removed and make them afraid of similar situations, people, physical contact and violence etc etc. Very similar effects often suffered to post traumatic stress disorder, and all that entails.
I don't see in what way were the women feeble? They valiantly attempted to defend a woman from her hardened, violent criminal husband. They did all the right things, in my opinion; they removed the children, raised the alarm, tried to reason, i.e. ask him to leave, then tried to use force against him. Somebody, 'ordinary' women, and men (with no DV background) would find difficult, and be afraid, to tackle.