jcscott and PassTheCremeEggs - I echo what others have said. It's a fascinating insight. I've been able to read these posts through the day but not really been in a position to respond to them. I used to deal with a group of ex-RAF officers in a previous job and I got used to the acronyms in the end so I guess the army is just the same - everything is littered with them!
My obsession is not fading as I (sort of) hoped it would and I find it as riveting being on here talking to my fellow CJ fans as I do watching clips of our favourite man. Had my fix already tonight.
Re his wife/child, it's hard to believe that as cherin says, it only came up at the end of the series (and the photos were hidden in a cardboard box. Whatever his (strained?) relationship with the ex-wife, it surprises me that he didn't have at least one photo of his son on display.
Anyway ladies, my news is that I have written to Ben's PR agency (Hamilton Hodell) to find out if they'll give us any information on whether he is likely to be appearing on any television or radio chat shows in the near future. I sent it around lunchtime but have not had a response so far. I'll update here if I receive a response. Here's hoping.
Like everyone else, I have never, ever, ever obsessed over a programme or character like I have over Our Girl/Captain James. Definitely like being a teenager again without the spots and greasy hair! Hormones now at the other end of the scale I fear.