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anyone online....am sobbing. DD1 wnet to pics with friends, they plied her with alcohol, and the police found her slumped on the beach alone, with no shoes or cardie, compley drunk, and bag stolen

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psychomum5 · 24/05/2009 01:14

containing her purse, mobile and new ipod touch that I bought her with my car accident money.

she is not rousable and shaking or vomiting.

help please

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psychomum5 · 24/05/2009 01:15

oh, her friends were finally found by the one frineds dad, who is a police officer, after her mumrang to say that the girls were missing

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psychomum5 · 24/05/2009 01:17

and it is DS1 birthday too in the morning.

this is so bad

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mummypig · 24/05/2009 01:18

oh so sorry to hear that, is she with you now? who brought her back?

ShinyPinkShoes · 24/05/2009 01:18

Oh goodness that sounds awful

How old is she...and where is she now?

mamadiva · 24/05/2009 01:18

OMG psycho

How is she? Could you get her to a hospital?

skramble · 24/05/2009 01:18

How old is she, is she home with you now?

elastamum · 24/05/2009 01:19

Oh how awful, pls take her to A&E if yu are really worried, they will understand

MagNacarta · 24/05/2009 01:19

You poor thing, is she asleep?

Tortington · 24/05/2009 01:19

are you ok?

pinkcake22 · 24/05/2009 01:20

is she conscious? are you worried about her? NHS direct number 08454647

psychomum5 · 24/05/2009 01:20

she is 15.

someone found her and managed to ring us (she managed to give them our number), then they handed her to the police.

we had been trying to ring her sine 8pm to sort out collecting. all went to hell at 10pm and we have been sorting it since

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FluffyBunnyGoneBad · 24/05/2009 01:21

You do need to take her to A&E if she's still like this now. Poor thing

VictorianSqualor · 24/05/2009 01:21

Oh psychomum!
Where is she now?

ShinyPinkShoes · 24/05/2009 01:21

Def worth getting her checked out.

Is there somebody you can call to be with you?

psychomum5 · 24/05/2009 01:21

she is hime now, in bed with me, vomiting on and off, or shaking.

am tryoing to get water into her, but not very easy.

no idea what to do......will a7e help or just kick us out as she is stupid enough to do this to herself??

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mamadiva · 24/05/2009 01:22

I don't want to scare you just trying to be sensible.

My mum was attacked in September, she had been drugged, assaulted and robbed.

Reason I mention this is because she never gained conciousness for 15 hours, and she still has no recollection of any of it ahppeneing. I hate to say it but could this have happened to your DD or was she definately just drunk?

I'd get her off to hospital and get her checked over.

Again sorry if I've scared you am just cautious of things like this.

psychomum5 · 24/05/2009 01:22

this is so crap

I never ever thought that this would be my DD. it happens yes, but my dd is sensible.

well, she was!

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possiblymaybe · 24/05/2009 01:23

jesus that's sounds awful

VictorianSqualor · 24/05/2009 01:23

tbh I agree with mamadiva, she could have been spiked,it's so common it's scary.

I'd probably take her to A&E just to eb on the safe side, did the police not suggest this?

ShinyPinkShoes · 24/05/2009 01:24

I recommend getting her checked out at A&E

pinkcake22 · 24/05/2009 01:24

just concentrate on her for now make sure she is okay ring nhs direct possibly take her 2 A&E. tomorrow cancel her cards if she any have any and make sure theft is reported to police.

VictorianSqualor · 24/05/2009 01:24

and no a&e won't kick you out, you could always call them first for advice but I bet they'll tell you to bring her in

psychomum5 · 24/05/2009 01:24

mamadive, the police asked her that, plus DH when he finally got to her, she was coherant enought to state no. and altho she has no shoes or cardie, she is otherwise dressed ok, so that is not a panic.

it is the alcohol that is worrying me, and that she is teeny tiny.she has not durnk like this before either, so all this is new to her system

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FluffyBunnyGoneBad · 24/05/2009 01:25

A&E won't kick you out. If she's not keeping anything down she needs to be on a drip. Alcohol isn't good for little bodies. She needs checking incase she's bumped her head aswell.

psychomum5 · 24/05/2009 01:26

right, so, what first.

i fele stupid.......do i ring first?? I can;t take her on my own, and DH needs to stop with the others (plus he is now asleep as he thought her ok once she was in bed with me).

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