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DD accused of sending Nude to a boy in school and she's devastated
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Whitegrenache · 29/04/2021 09:49

Dd is suffering from low mood and anxiety ans has never enjoyed secondary school. She has a strong set of friends out of school but has never really had firm friends at school which she finds hard and sad about.
Anyway she started self harming last week and told me. I spoke to GP and have booked her for private counselling which we are waiting for a date.
She fell out with her bf after Xmas and doesn't know why, bf just stopped speaking to her for no reason which has definitely been a source of dd anxiety.

She rang me at lunchtime yesterday begging me to pick her up from school. She then burst into tears when she was in the car and told me a boy (her ex best friends ex boyfriend )had told another boy, that a girl (from a different school) had sent him a nude picture. that boy then decided to shout out in the dinner hall that it was my DD who sent it. All but one of her friends have turned against my dd believing that she did send the nude and how dare she do this to her bf 😢
Then last night dd was getting snap chats from on random girl being basically Abusive and bullying dd. She was absolutely heart broken and begged us to not send her into school.
We insisted she needs to go to the school which she has done and try to ignore and be strong.

My question is what else can is do?
She won't let me contact school as snitches are treat even worse!
But she is desperately unhappy and I am absolutely lost as to how to help her.
Thanks

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masterofthechef · 29/04/2021 23:30

when something similar happened to my DD it changed us all , i went from friend to parent for the first time in her life, have never gone back to being that person in any aspect of my life, things get addressed immediately and dealt with .
OP you have been great so far and i join the others in urging you to report to the police. The fallout is not yours to worry about.

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656times · 30/04/2021 07:24

Good result in a shit situation, OP, well done.

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Mydarlingmyhamburger · 09/05/2021 12:17

Any updates op?

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