no i just sniffed loudly and said i would wear it well away from them. the oldest one was sulking so didn't stick up for me (she's a year older).
i think they might be sort of right though, i think a dress which is darker than leggings would look nicer.
so, onto this wallis job. i am a 16 top 14 bottom what the hell size would suit? they say m is 12/14 and l 14/16. they come up big no?