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How can I wean my mother off the Damart catalogue

217 replies

KassandraOfSparta · Yesterday 17:44

OK, she is 80. She also does not "do" online shopping and cannot use the internet so is limited in choice to mail order or what shops exist in her town which sell clothes (small M&S, TK Maxx, Tesco, Morrisons, New Look, Matalan). She is not short of cash.

Visited today and she was wearing the most godawful old lady mint green, acyrlic, zippy up cardigan. I said "Oh that's new mum, haven't seen that before" and she announces it's from the Damart catalogue. If you've ever wondered who buys the "comfortable slacks" and similar items advertised in the national trust magazine, that's my mum.

I don't expect her to be high fashion. Sibling and I often buy clothes for her for birthdays and Christmas, sibling recently bought her a striped breton cotton top which she appears to like. She obviously wants to be comfortable and I do get that. But there is comfortable... and there is the Damart catalogue.

I bumped into a friend of hers recently - similar age - wearing Adidas trainers, black trousers, lambswool jumper. Nothing high fashion or out there. My mum has very odd ideas about clothes and appearance (people over 40 shouldn't wear jeans, women over 30 shouldn't have long hair, if you were meant to have holes in your earlobes you'd be born with them, pop socks are a perfectly acceptable item of clothing) and weaning her off this abomination of a catalogue is going to be tough. Any ideas?

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Lomonald · Today 10:17

Cardomomle · Today 10:13

That's interesting because I struggle to get trousers short enough (I'm 5'1"). Even M&S short length are too long now. Thanks for the tip!

Bonmarche and cotton traders do leg lengths. I am 5ft and get trousers from these shops. It used to be M&S but even their short isn't short enough. I know Bon marche is seen as "old lady" but .for trousers they are fine.

MadellineBellPictureMeGoneNS · Today 10:20

Damart run free
Don't get hung up
Like my daughter
About my baffies
And me.

Sung to the 70s hit young hearts run free.
Feel free to add to fellow posters.

Cardomomle · Today 10:27

Lomonald · Today 10:17

Bonmarche and cotton traders do leg lengths. I am 5ft and get trousers from these shops. It used to be M&S but even their short isn't short enough. I know Bon marche is seen as "old lady" but .for trousers they are fine.

Ok, thanks! Like you, I don't care for ageist stereotypes, if I can find good clothes I don't really care about the label! Natural fabrics are getting harder to find.

Lomonald · Today 10:29

Cardomomle · Today 10:27

Ok, thanks! Like you, I don't care for ageist stereotypes, if I can find good clothes I don't really care about the label! Natural fabrics are getting harder to find.

Cotton traders trousers are nicer than Bon Marche but they are a bit cheaper, so i have a mix.

Cardomomle · Today 10:30

Lomonald · Today 10:29

Cotton traders trousers are nicer than Bon Marche but they are a bit cheaper, so i have a mix.

👍🏼

PerdreLeBleu · Today 10:36

OFGS! I’m now getting pop up ads for the Damart Catalogue thanks to this thread! 😂😂😂

Lomonald · Today 10:39

PerdreLeBleu · Today 10:36

OFGS! I’m now getting pop up ads for the Damart Catalogue thanks to this thread! 😂😂😂

Maybe it was sneaky marketing 🤔 😀

CaptainMyCaptain · Today 10:44

PerdreLeBleu · Today 10:36

OFGS! I’m now getting pop up ads for the Damart Catalogue thanks to this thread! 😂😂😂

I've got Sweaty Betty 🤷‍♀️

LongTallTally · Today 11:05

CaptainMyCaptain · Today 10:44

I've got Sweaty Betty 🤷‍♀️

That's just a humblebrag!

Lomonald · Today 11:20

LongTallTally · Today 11:05

That's just a humblebrag!

😀

CaptainMyCaptain · Today 11:21

LongTallTally · Today 11:05

That's just a humblebrag!

🤣
I've never owned anything of theirs.

LongTallTally · Today 11:23

CaptainMyCaptain · Today 11:21

🤣
I've never owned anything of theirs.

They have very lovely leggings but they are seriously pricey. Good sales though. A long way from Damart.

Lomonald · Today 11:24

At least it isn't the tacky lingerie .giant advert i was getting nobody needs to.see suspenders and a thong first thing or at any time really.

Cardomomle · Today 11:29

Lomonald · Today 11:24

At least it isn't the tacky lingerie .giant advert i was getting nobody needs to.see suspenders and a thong first thing or at any time really.

Oh my god, I was getting those for a while. Fortunately mostly H&M now!

Lomonald · Today 11:32

Cardomomle · Today 11:29

Oh my god, I was getting those for a while. Fortunately mostly H&M now!

Thankfully they seem to have gone, i know mumsnet rely on advertising but my god there was no need for it to take up half my page.

CherryRipe1 · Today 11:42

I used to snigger at Damart and Chums! Now I have the odd flick through if I see catalogue and think hmmm. that's not toooo bad & looks comfy.

LilyBunch25 · Today 11:51

At 80, does it really matter so much if she is content with her purchases and warm/comfortable in what she's wearing?

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