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You can ban ONE summer look. Which?

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awfulapril · 25/05/2026 15:34

Which kind of outfit or particular item are you seeing in the hot weather that you'd like to ban Man or woman.

illogical hatred preferred
i think bikini tops anywhere other than a Beach. At

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BridgetJonesV2 · 25/05/2026 18:11

I'm just celebrating the demise of the white gym socks over leggings sheep look. Everyone can wear whatever they want to celebrate.

OchreReader · 25/05/2026 18:11

iseenyouwithkefir · 25/05/2026 17:32

🎶 I've always been one of the dudes
With my flat top and my combat boots
But now I'm learning all the thrills
That come with wearing espadrilles... 🎶

BOO, NO! to:

  • Socks under sandals, especially black socks, especially if I can smell them. Also, please do not take your shoes off and go around in your stocking feet if your socks smell, thanks.
  • Exposed bellies, on either sex, no matter the condition. Leave those at home.

For balance, I do love linen trousers, miniskirts, floor-length skirts, and those leggings that scrunch over your arse (with the caveat that I should not really be able to see the fabric over your arse if you are wearing leggings otherwise than for active sport).

Smell them 🤢🤮 Disgusting. I remember having to use a laundry when my washing machine broke down and almost vomited when the man next to me opened his bag and pulled his socks out. I agree…if your feet smell, keep them hidden!

HaveYouFedTheFish · 25/05/2026 18:12

"Basic bitches" is a misogynistic term used by insecure people (of both sexes) who define themselves in terms of their own consumer choices and need to signal their own specialness (ironically defined by their own ready to wear high street purchasing).

BlueMouseMat · 25/05/2026 18:13

i think bikini tops anywhere other than a Beach

I agree. A loose cotton top is much cooler than the sun burning into your skin.

TamarindCottage · 25/05/2026 18:15

Peterdottir · 25/05/2026 16:13

3/4 length trousers on men. I'm fine with them wearing shorts (provided not super short) but there is something unsettling about seeing a man's hairy ankle. Gives me the ick.

3/4 length trousers on ANYONE over age 10

awfulapril · 25/05/2026 18:16

HaveYouFedTheFish · 25/05/2026 18:12

"Basic bitches" is a misogynistic term used by insecure people (of both sexes) who define themselves in terms of their own consumer choices and need to signal their own specialness (ironically defined by their own ready to wear high street purchasing).

Edited

That's interesting. I wouldn't see it that way I would say it is a bit of a pumpkin latte Facebook white socks over leggings kind of woman.

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lilaccamille · 25/05/2026 18:17

White linen trousers
Ageing

BeanQuisine · 25/05/2026 18:18

Lot of votes for shirtless men, but I would add: topless people of any sex or age.

Apart from the unappealing look, it's a foolish risk for sunburn/cancer.

Teakettletrio · 25/05/2026 18:18

If we all hate the saggy bum cheek shorts, why do people keep wearing them? Who actually likes them?
I too loathe them. I do not wish to see anyone’s arse cheeks in public.
I even saw some sort of Shein/Temu type product which is a fake transfer tattoo thing for your bum cheeks if you are wearing these kind of shorts. It was like a toadstool stern. Made me wonder how Cheryl Tweedy’s big arse cheek tattoo was weathering. Shudder.
Also to add spaghetti strap tops with a grubby bra on show underneath.

BlueMouseMat · 25/05/2026 18:18

Go to Italy in warm/hot weather and you won't see any of these things from the locals.... they know how to dress properly and appropriately

tbf they're acclimatised.

HobGobblynne · 25/05/2026 18:20

Men trotting about with their tops off in the supermarket/park/town centre etc.

awfulapril · 25/05/2026 18:20

Ooh. Those boob tube vest tops on anyone over 25.

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awfulapril · 25/05/2026 18:20

Teakettletrio · 25/05/2026 18:18

If we all hate the saggy bum cheek shorts, why do people keep wearing them? Who actually likes them?
I too loathe them. I do not wish to see anyone’s arse cheeks in public.
I even saw some sort of Shein/Temu type product which is a fake transfer tattoo thing for your bum cheeks if you are wearing these kind of shorts. It was like a toadstool stern. Made me wonder how Cheryl Tweedy’s big arse cheek tattoo was weathering. Shudder.
Also to add spaghetti strap tops with a grubby bra on show underneath.

Men 😬

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UnctuousUnicorns · 25/05/2026 18:22

UnderMirkwood · 25/05/2026 17:01

This immediately made me think of The Kinks and Dedicated Follower of Fashion, which I love - actually I love everything by The Kinks:-

He thinks he is a flower to be looked at
And when he pulls his frilly nylon panties right up tight
He feels a dedicated follower of fashion.

Plus the way Ray sings, "right up tight!", it kills me. 😅 And the hoity toity accent, "as fickle as can be" etc. Just brilliant.

awfulapril · 25/05/2026 18:23

Those dicks shoes are very handmaids tale

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awfulapril · 25/05/2026 18:23

Like a prosthetic foot

You can ban ONE summer look. Which?
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HaveYouFedTheFish · 25/05/2026 18:24

awfulapril · 25/05/2026 18:16

That's interesting. I wouldn't see it that way I would say it is a bit of a pumpkin latte Facebook white socks over leggings kind of woman.

You misunderstood - those who use the misogynistic term are insecure and using it to "other" an imaginary, less special, "type" of women's consumer choices in the mistaken belief this makes their own consumer choices look special. It's ironic because the individual using the term is the one who is unable to separate identity from high street/ mainstream consumer purchasing.

Happyjoe · 25/05/2026 18:24

Flyingintotheunknown · 25/05/2026 17:49

Have you not seen the post the op has written above???? Please keep the thread on topic and take your issues elsewhere!!

I did.

I didn't tell people they were unfashionable and not letting it drop, I didn't tell them to get a life, and now I find it amusing that you still go on the attack, saying I have issues.

I guess I do. That kind of behaviour is annoying.

OtterandaRock · 25/05/2026 18:24

awfulapril · 25/05/2026 16:36

Spanish and Italian people in the UK

What?
I was thinking of homegrown denim users.

henlake7 · 25/05/2026 18:25

agree with;
men- bare chests
women-shorts that show arse cheeks

Obviously in places like High st, supermarkets, etc. At home or out in the wild do as you like!

awfulapril · 25/05/2026 18:25

joe and flying.

do I need to create you your own thread to write on?

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HorrorPudding · 25/05/2026 18:26

It’s probably been mentioned already but I wish short puffed sleeves on dresses and tops would finally die (winter clothing too). I don’t mind a slightly puffed shoulder on a slim sleeve or a balloon cuff but I don’t want to look like an American football player or a menopausal Little Bow Peep. It’s still in the shops, usually on shapeless dresses made with more fabric than a pair of hospital curtains.

BlueMouseMat · 25/05/2026 18:26

Shirtless men

Eeew, the ones who are dripping sweat. At least a t-shirt would soak it up instead of it dripping everywhere. Oh yuk.

Happyjoe · 25/05/2026 18:26

awfulapril · 25/05/2026 18:25

joe and flying.

do I need to create you your own thread to write on?

This is normal for MN isn't it?!
But yeah, fair dos.

Me, it's PJ's. Even in the hot weather am seeing people in PJ's.