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What should I wear to a black tie celebrity wedding?

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Fushcia · 12/05/2026 20:40

A friend is getting married in NYC later this year. The dress code is black tie. The venue has not been disclosed and will not be disclosed until the day of the event to avoid media attention as they are within the celebrity sphere (I know them through family and am very much not from this world)
Any advice on something suitably glamorous given there may be a few A listers present and I don’t want to look out of place? I’m 5’7, size 8-10. Budget not really an issue

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LiquidSquid · 13/05/2026 23:07

EleanorMc67 Your post at 22.23, the first image looks like just shoulders & legs, she has no middle. I'm sure it's just my eyes but that photo gives me the creeps!

I do like a puffball type dress though.

Fushcia You could have a look on Needle & Thread.

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EleanorMc67 · 13/05/2026 23:09

Others from Bernadette. Minimal navy, but lovely flowing edges. An icy blue-green asymmetric one. And a proper big reddish-pink "gown", which I love!

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EleanorMc67 · 13/05/2026 23:12

LiquidSquid · 13/05/2026 23:07

EleanorMc67 Your post at 22.23, the first image looks like just shoulders & legs, she has no middle. I'm sure it's just my eyes but that photo gives me the creeps!

I do like a puffball type dress though.

Fushcia You could have a look on Needle & Thread.

Sorry to have freaked you out!! You know the images open if you click on them? Though maybe it will still disturb you ...!

LiquidSquid · 13/05/2026 23:15

EleanorMc67 · 13/05/2026 23:12

Sorry to have freaked you out!! You know the images open if you click on them? Though maybe it will still disturb you ...!

Haha, yes I know. I still don't like it. Just something about it!

Anyway, love that Icy Blue dress you just posted!

EleanorMc67 · 13/05/2026 23:20

LiquidSquid · 13/05/2026 23:15

Haha, yes I know. I still don't like it. Just something about it!

Anyway, love that Icy Blue dress you just posted!

Oh I see what you mean, now I've looked at it again! Yes it is quite freaky-looking, isn't it!!

EleanorMc67 · 13/05/2026 23:23

Last few of the ones I like on Bernadette. Love both the teal blue & emerald shades, & also the simplicity of a great black gown (with shitloads of jewellery, of course! Earrings & rings/bangles though - no necklace).

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EleanorMc67 · 13/05/2026 23:28

Fushcia · 13/05/2026 19:34

Thanks for all the advice so far! I can come back afterwards with full details.

I am leaning towards a VB option as I’ve realised the red one I liked above is 100% polyester which I think is unavailable for that price.

Someone also recommended this option - tell me honestly if it’s awful as I’m torn between love/hate:
staud.clothing/products/calluna-dress-magenta-painted-floral-1

I rather like it! You should try it on at least? Do you want to wear a NY designer though?

Ophir · 13/05/2026 23:33

If you wear one of the Bernadette ones you could also afford shelter to guests if it rains

Ophir · 13/05/2026 23:35

@Fushcia not a fan of the Staud clothing one

LiquidSquid · 13/05/2026 23:40

EleanorMc67 · 13/05/2026 23:20

Oh I see what you mean, now I've looked at it again! Yes it is quite freaky-looking, isn't it!!

I'm glad that it's not just me!

EleanorMc67 · 13/05/2026 23:47

A few Roksanda ones that might fit the bill. The pink & red Aela is my favourite. Although I have a sneaking fondness for her very literal interpretation of an English rose ...!!

https://roksanda.com/products/aela-dress

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EleanorMc67 · 13/05/2026 23:52

This silk Saloni dress is beautiful. I like the take on a cheongsam.

https://saloniworld.com/products/kelly-dress-in-scarlet

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Saddlesore · 14/05/2026 00:00

Have you looked at Erdem? I love this one
erdem.com/products/floral-print-duchess-draped-gown-ss26_g65_51635020

EleanorMc67 · 14/05/2026 00:05

These Saloni ones are also lovely. But I think probably too warm for your colouring?

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EleanorMc67 · 14/05/2026 00:07

Whereas these would be better (if the reds are cooler-toned in reality). The burgundy one could veer towards bridesmaid-y though.

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EleanorMc67 · 14/05/2026 00:28

Saddlesore · 14/05/2026 00:00

I love so many of those dresses, & had been going to suggest some of the less obviously floral spring/summer options. Another British brand, & the prints & colours are beautiful.

But what is it with the models on the Erdem website??! So dour & bad-tempered looking that it's quite offputting!

BobbysDazzler · 14/05/2026 00:34

A-Line Plunge Neck Sleeveless Asymmetrical Cocktail Dresses With Cascading Ruffles - Missacc https://share.google/XxzQANNYlyi8wv2N6

You did say you suit pinks 😍

Edited to add that the blue one is lush too 😉

EleanorMc67 · 14/05/2026 00:44

I can't come on a thread about dresses without shoehorning in Liberty AGAIN!! As British as they come, iconic prints, & all silk ... plus these blue-green colours would suit you. They're not as full-on as some of the other suggestions, but they are beautiful. Maybe they would suit the get-together the day before? There are even top & trouser/top & skirt options that might suit then?

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EleanorMc67 · 14/05/2026 01:03

I like these Erdem ones & think they would be NY evening black-tie appropriate.

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What should I wear to a black tie celebrity wedding?
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EleanorMc67 · 14/05/2026 01:09

But I LOVE these two Erdem ones. The first silver-grey with blue one would complement your colouring particularly well, I think, OP?

And what I think is also lovely, & so appropriate, is that the prints are based on Dutch Master floral still life paintings - & New York was founded as a Dutch colony called New Amsterdam ...

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EleanorMc67 · 14/05/2026 01:12

There are some other Erdem dresses on My Theresa. Lovely inky blue one.

https://www.mytheresa.com/gb/en/women/erdem-embellished-scarf-detail-satin-cady-gown-blue-p01081979

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crabb · 14/05/2026 03:20

EleanorMc67 · 14/05/2026 01:03

I like these Erdem ones & think they would be NY evening black-tie appropriate.

What is that first model wearing on her feet?!

EleanorMc67 · 14/05/2026 03:32

crabb · 14/05/2026 03:20

What is that first model wearing on her feet?!

They make the outfit, don't they ...?!

Dingdongavon · 14/05/2026 09:04

Fushcia · 13/05/2026 19:34

Thanks for all the advice so far! I can come back afterwards with full details.

I am leaning towards a VB option as I’ve realised the red one I liked above is 100% polyester which I think is unavailable for that price.

Someone also recommended this option - tell me honestly if it’s awful as I’m torn between love/hate:
staud.clothing/products/calluna-dress-magenta-painted-floral-1

Love it! Gorgeous

Italiangreyhound · 14/05/2026 09:09

I also like the pale blue £895 Michelle Dress in Nerine Glacier
Lovely.