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Autumn leaves, colder days and Toasty talk!

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IlovePond · 26/09/2025 15:50

I have started a new thread for all things Toast related !

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BankfieldForever · 12/10/2025 00:39

faustina · 11/10/2025 18:31

Talking about dry clean only has anyone noticed there's some really nice brushed cashmere this season? They have it at Cos, and JL and also M and S and it's all do not wash (at all!!!) - some of them say dry clean only but don't wash ...ever? Imagine having a jumper you could never wash!!

@faustina You can wash cashmere. All wool is fine to be washed - as long as you do it the right way.

Use a large bowl of water and soap to soak and rinse the same way in clean water - but no agitation or running water at any stage. Then roll in a towel, stand on it and dry flat on a non absorbent surface.

I’d love to set up a wool washing service as its one of my favourite things to do and so many people seem bothered by it! I don’t think there’d be a market though.

I once had a cotton summer dress from Cabbages and Roses that said ‘do not wash, do not dry clean’ - I did wash it, of course, but thought it was so tidiculous I contacted them about it and the woman on the phone said ‘you can just pop it in the freezer if it needs freshening up’. Words fail me.

faustina · 12/10/2025 06:51

@BankfieldForever all my cashmere goes in a wool wash with wool specific laundry liquid and then gets dried flat and I've never had a problem. It's the 'do not wash' label on such an everyday item as a jumper which puzzles me . I wonder if it's the brushed part of the finish, but if so, then why make it in the first place? Like your cotton dress. Madness!

PeonyBlush10 · 12/10/2025 10:44

Skipping back to talk of Vinted sellers not replying to request for sizes etc. Just an interesting observation, as an eBay seller who has sold a couple hundred items plus I tend to find the ones who ask questions rarely end up buying the item. I can answer lots of questions/measurements only to be asked if I’d accept a lower offer which I reject as my items are always fairly priced and on the lower side of what I could ask and I have also disabled the ‘open to offers’ toggle which is clear for everyone to see. Perhaps other sellers have noticed this and don’t bother replying ( this is not me, I always answer questions promptly, but I know in the back of my mind they are unlikely to buy
but it’s also rude not to reply when someone has reached out). In my experience when someone buys, they usually buy without contact and this is a regular and familiar pattern. Having said this I spend loads of time taking quality photos, close ups and different lightings and now include measurements so perhaps all the questions are answered in the photos. I also get mildly irked if I’m not left a review. About 50 % leave reviews which is much appreciated and enough to establish a good following, but I think it’s good manners to say ‘thank you’ at least.

ToastCosILoveIt · 12/10/2025 10:52

@ScottishMouse , i bought the gathered neck silk cotton shirt in navy and I am going to keep it. The dry clean only label is crazy but I will wear a slim tee underneath and it it will be a great work blouse.

In sales terms, purchases were light for me. The cotton poplin shirt with tie dress in navy is going back: looks great on the model but shapeless on me. I am keeping the tailored cotton linen jacket in raven blue (looks grey). While thinking about purchasing it the 10 sold out so I got the 12 (which I am, but reviews said it came up big). It is oversized but I think it will be a good jacket with jeans and a jumper at the weekend. I also kept a boxy slate tee shirt. A last minute order was the floral embroidered poplin shirt which I will be taking on holiday next week. It is a lovely piece, nicely reduced and the embroidery is lovely. It was £110 but full price had been more than double that I think. So, a light sale for me overall.

I am very tempted by the velvet black skirt, has anyone bought it? Also, the cotton workwear tunic dress which looks good, albeit perhaps too much like previous Toast dresses I have bought. www.toa.st/products/cotton-workwear-tunic-dress-cobalt-blue

I bought the dianthus print pleated front dress when it came out and it has earned its keep already, a beautiful and very flattering style. It has drawn lots of comments, including from my hairdresser yesterday!

BankfieldForever · 12/10/2025 16:57

PeonyBlush10 · 12/10/2025 10:44

Skipping back to talk of Vinted sellers not replying to request for sizes etc. Just an interesting observation, as an eBay seller who has sold a couple hundred items plus I tend to find the ones who ask questions rarely end up buying the item. I can answer lots of questions/measurements only to be asked if I’d accept a lower offer which I reject as my items are always fairly priced and on the lower side of what I could ask and I have also disabled the ‘open to offers’ toggle which is clear for everyone to see. Perhaps other sellers have noticed this and don’t bother replying ( this is not me, I always answer questions promptly, but I know in the back of my mind they are unlikely to buy
but it’s also rude not to reply when someone has reached out). In my experience when someone buys, they usually buy without contact and this is a regular and familiar pattern. Having said this I spend loads of time taking quality photos, close ups and different lightings and now include measurements so perhaps all the questions are answered in the photos. I also get mildly irked if I’m not left a review. About 50 % leave reviews which is much appreciated and enough to establish a good following, but I think it’s good manners to say ‘thank you’ at least.

I agree, I’m an ebay seller too and I tend to block anyone who asks questions. They’re usually just angling for a low offer so they can make a profit reselling it or trying to get you to say something that they can use against you in a return case after they’ve worn it on a night out.

The kind of clothes I sell, if you’re looking for that thing, you know what it is and what its worth, and if you’re a genuine buyer, you just buy.

BankfieldForever · 12/10/2025 17:01

@ToastCosILoveIt I have a previous season silk cotton shirt that has a dry clean only label, it washes at 30 in the machine and irons just fine.

TosstTastic · 12/10/2025 17:27

Just machine washed the Kantha pinafore on a cold wool wash. It survived gardening, pastry making and now the machine. Am now stitched into it for the coming winter.

PeonyBlush10 · 12/10/2025 17:52

BankfieldForever · 12/10/2025 16:57

I agree, I’m an ebay seller too and I tend to block anyone who asks questions. They’re usually just angling for a low offer so they can make a profit reselling it or trying to get you to say something that they can use against you in a return case after they’ve worn it on a night out.

The kind of clothes I sell, if you’re looking for that thing, you know what it is and what its worth, and if you’re a genuine buyer, you just buy.

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Agree, although some buyers just need that little bit more reassurance that it’s in good quality condition. I know that feeling when I’ve spent money only to open up the parcel to find it’s not what I expected. It’s disappointing.

AmethystMoonShine · 12/10/2025 20:08

I’ve just been looking at the velvet skirt but see that is No Wash, not even dry clean only. It’s lovely and I’d wear it lots but I have a dog with muddy paws, how on earth can it be no wash? Has anyone else got previous season cotton velvet that says no wash…. But has successful washed/cleaned it?

BankfieldForever · 12/10/2025 23:34

PeonyBlush10 · 12/10/2025 17:52

Agree, although some buyers just need that little bit more reassurance that it’s in good quality condition. I know that feeling when I’ve spent money only to open up the parcel to find it’s not what I expected. It’s disappointing.

Sellers always say things are ‘new’ or ‘worn once’ and won’t say any different if you ask.

If something is not in good enough condition I send it back. As a seller I know that No Returns doesn’t mean no returns.

BankfieldForever · 12/10/2025 23:38

AmethystMoonShine · 12/10/2025 20:08

I’ve just been looking at the velvet skirt but see that is No Wash, not even dry clean only. It’s lovely and I’d wear it lots but I have a dog with muddy paws, how on earth can it be no wash? Has anyone else got previous season cotton velvet that says no wash…. But has successful washed/cleaned it?

Its 100% cotton and unlined so you should be OK to wash it cold and give it a good brush when its dry, like corduroy.

AmethystMoonShine · 13/10/2025 04:43

BankfieldForever · 12/10/2025 23:38

Its 100% cotton and unlined so you should be OK to wash it cold and give it a good brush when its dry, like corduroy.

Thanks @BankfieldForever what kind of brush would you use? Like a clothes brush? I’ve never brushed my corduroy but do wash that successfully.

faustina · 13/10/2025 05:53

@AmethystMoonShine - I managed to ruin a Toast cotton velvet robe many years ago by putting it in the washing machine. I wasn't as careful about washing as I am now and I don't think I washed it on cold. It didn't shrink or anything, it just never looked the same again

AmethystMoonShine · 13/10/2025 08:01

faustina · 13/10/2025 05:53

@AmethystMoonShine - I managed to ruin a Toast cotton velvet robe many years ago by putting it in the washing machine. I wasn't as careful about washing as I am now and I don't think I washed it on cold. It didn't shrink or anything, it just never looked the same again

Thanks @faustina …. This is what I’m scared of! I wonder if they assume it’ll be a rarely worn item. It’s not styled as a special occasion garment though. Just annoys me they create things then say don’t wash it! I’d understand dry clean only. Might see if it goes in the sale.

faustina · 13/10/2025 08:07

@AmethystMoonShine - the gowns used to be dry clean only. Doesn't it even say that for the skirt? Like the Cos brushed cashmere then - madness!

AmethystMoonShine · 13/10/2025 08:12

@faustina just like the Cos brushed cashmere, it says not to wash it. Madness indeed!

BankfieldForever · 13/10/2025 13:33

The luxury fabrics they use now do seem such a minefield, although in most cases its just a more extreme way of covering their backs in case of laundry damage than the old ‘dry clean only’ labels were. I do think you’re right that toast are assuming that the velvet skirt would be worn very occasionally, even though they’ve styled it with a jumper and brogues.

In my experience ‘dry clean only’ and ‘do not wash’ labels are used because a lining would react differently to washing than the outer would - acetate linings, for instance - will shrink at a different rate to its wool or cotton garment and go dull if washed, although in this case the skirt isn’t lined so its not that. Its mostly to prevent claims. There are many people who throw everything into the machine on 40 or 60 after every wear - which certainly wouldn’t do a luxury fabric any good.

Barring things like metallic or fire resistant finishes its extremely rare for a fabric to not be washable, but you can’t throw everything in the machine. Sometimes fabrics are not quite the same even after careful washing, but are not actually damaged. I’ve never had a disaster washing cotton velvet (done it many times for work) but either ‘soak and roll’ without really touching the garment or use my fancy German washing machine that can do a cold handwash much more gently than I can.

@AmethystMoonShine Yes, I’d hang velvet up and steam it with a few blasts from my steam iron then use an old fashioned clothes brush or one of those red velvet lint pads to raise the pile, then let it dry completely before touching it.

Seriously considering buying that skirt now, although how many navy A line skirts can a girl own?

Saurus72 · 13/10/2025 13:47

Washing cotton velvet is definitely a minefield. I’ve had several cotton velvet jackets from Boden over the years and have washed (and tumble dried!!!) both with excellent results. No shrinkage and no ironing/steaming required.

OTOH I had a cotton velvet jacket from Banana Republic and assumed it would be the same as the Boden ones. Reader, it was totally ruined. It’s high stakes for sure. I like the Toast velvet skirt but not without an easy way to keep it clean.

AmethystMoonShine · 13/10/2025 13:58

Mmm it's definitely a minefield @Saurus72 you're right.

@BankfieldForever is your fancy German washing machine by any chance a Miele? I've got one with the honeycomb drum and agree they are excellent for 'handwashing', I do silk, cashmere, wool etc. in mine with no issues. For some reason I'm now scared of cotton velvet!

BankfieldForever · 13/10/2025 14:12

AmethystMoonShine · 13/10/2025 13:58

Mmm it's definitely a minefield @Saurus72 you're right.

@BankfieldForever is your fancy German washing machine by any chance a Miele? I've got one with the honeycomb drum and agree they are excellent for 'handwashing', I do silk, cashmere, wool etc. in mine with no issues. For some reason I'm now scared of cotton velvet!

It’s a Bosch. I bought it when I lived in Germany and loved it so much I brought it back to Scotland. Its almost 20 years old and has never given me a moment’s trouble. (It will now I’ve said that).

It makes me smile that it speaks to me in German…’Bitte die tur schliessen…danke’ ☺️

mizu · 13/10/2025 19:19

@BankfieldForever navy A line skirts are the best. I’m the same with TOAST denim skirts and dresses. Really try and do a one in, one out policy.

Your washing machine sounds like a beauty. 20 years!!

ToastCosILoveIt · 13/10/2025 20:26

I love the velvet skirt, I was very tempted but this not washing/dry cleaning has really put me off, especially as I too would style with a jumper and boots and wear more casually, although I would also dress it up with a silk blouse at Christmas.

What is the navy skirt you're all talking about? The velvet one is black, is it not?

BankfieldForever · 13/10/2025 21:20

mizu · 13/10/2025 19:19

@BankfieldForever navy A line skirts are the best. I’m the same with TOAST denim skirts and dresses. Really try and do a one in, one out policy.

Your washing machine sounds like a beauty. 20 years!!

Love this post - You’re right, navy A line skirts are the best and don’t last forever so another one can’t hurt…

Let me tell you - I’ve babied that machine. It helps that I only do a couple of loads a week as we’ve no kids at home but still, it’s doing well!

BankfieldForever · 13/10/2025 21:24

@ToastCosILoveIt

You’re right, the velvet skirt is black (I’d prefer navy so I’m rethinking purchasing it). I think I assumed it was navy because most toast stuff is navy!

I have the poplin pinafore dress from summer in shade ‘liquorice’ - its blue.

CandidCrow · 14/10/2025 20:10

Does anyone have the Orla donegal jumper from previous years and has tried on/seen this years colours? I like the green but at these prices i am hesitant. A lot of the reviews say that a tshirt/shirt underneath can be seen through the shoulder and the quality isn’t what it was.. i do think the prices are ridiculous and I buy a lot less than I used to