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17 year old wedding guest

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JustADressPlease · 24/08/2025 16:46

Please help me. I'm going to try and cram enough details in, so please excuse the length of the post. We are due to attend a fairly small, fairly casual (in a church but then in a nice country pub afterwards), family wedding in a couple of weeks and I desperately need help. And I say that without any hyperbole! My daughter is 17, mildly ND, has issues with labels and things she feels are constricting. She is 5'10" and a size 6-8, but prefers an 8. She has really, really loooonnng legs (thank goodness she took after her dad and didn't get my stumpy legs with podgy knees and ridiculously long back because that would make this even harder) but doesn't particularly like to flaunt them! She has a model physique and could wear a bin bag and look amazing but is happiest in a pair of leggings and a fleecy jumper. She isn't overly girly, very untrendy, doesn't like jumpsuits as they, ahem, cut her in two, is willing to wear a dress (that's kind of a "must", don't ask!), and doesn't like yellow, overly bright patterns or flowers.

I took her and friend over to the nearest big city a couple of weeks ago and she found nothing. She said she would wear a dress she already has. I've kept asking her to try it on and to show me and she kept forgetting or saying she'd do it later and then that it would be fine, but still hadn't shown me. One of her ND side effects is avoidance of things that make her uncomfortable. I forced her to go and put it on and show me this morning. It's too small, which I suspected it would be. Sigh... I have been looking for something online for the past week or so because I foresaw this coming. I have probably spent about 15 hours, maybe more, trolling loads of sites (Nobody's Child, H&M, Next, Sosander, Roman, Phase Eight, River Island and probably more that I have forgotten) and opening about a million tabs which I sat her down and made her look at this morning. Just to give me some ideas. This is the ONLY one, from Nobody's Child, which was almost acceptable and of course, now it's flipping out of stock. I have emailed and hopefully it might come back in stock, although since it's summery it's unlikely: Acceptable Dress I have looked at every option within my budget (upto £150, I'm that desperate, but prefereably, much, much less as she's likely to only wear it this once!)

So please, please, help me and suggest other stores or even better actual dresses that might be acceptable. I would be unbelievably grateful.

Thanks, one tired,desperate internetted out mum...

Pink Sleeveless Tiered Charlie Midi Dress

Pink Sleeveless Tiered Charlie Midi Dress

https://www.nobodyschild.com/products/pink-sleeveless-tiered-charlie-midi-dress-d255476pnk?cjdata=MXxZfDB8WXwxNzU4NjM3MTI0NDk2&cjevent=3e0e651580f511f083f302200a18b8fc&utm_source=CJ&utm_medium=affiliate&utm_campaign=Easyfundraising+Ltd

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JustADressPlease · 26/08/2025 18:25

MangoesAndPeaches · 26/08/2025 17:58

OP, the Nobody’s Child dress is back in stock in size 8! The one she has picked is lovely, but just in case she wants to try both on.

I got the back-in-stock email too, but if you go on there, the pink actually isn't in stock. Sigh! I was going to order it so she could decide between the two but hey ho! But thank you for posting to let me know, that was really kind!

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Mynewnameis · 26/08/2025 18:28

Look on vinted for the same dress in a bigger size. I have an nd daughter and often do this

Oneborneverydecade · 26/08/2025 20:24

https://www.asos.com/prd/209141577?acquisitionsource=com

I see that you've ordered a dress and hopefully it's perfect. This one is quite like the original?

AtomicBlondeRose · 26/08/2025 21:05

Yay! I won! I hope it works out in person. Glad I could help - my hours of trying to pinpoint whether an item will be acceptable to my own DD have clearly paid off.

TruthUnwinding · 27/08/2025 15:19

I am that height and get away with jumpsuits from Lucy and Yak's tall range.

The black one could be dressed up a bit (I have done this myself). It can look like a smart black dress in a certain light. There's also a few patterned ones.

I did try to post a link, but MN wouldn't let me.

17 year old wedding guest
GrandmaJowa · 27/08/2025 16:03

Is Long Tall Sally still in business?

JustMyView13 · 27/08/2025 18:58

Club L London incase it hasn't already been suggested (sorry, laziness not going through the whole post).

Alondra · 28/08/2025 10:37

Have you tried looking into Zara's dresses? There are some gorgeous ones, reasonably priced your DD may like.

https://www.zara.com/uk/en/search?searchTerm=dress&section=WOMAN

TreadSoftlyOnMyDreams · 28/08/2025 10:46

JustADressPlease · 24/08/2025 17:14

Apparently plain navy is not weddingy.... Honestly, I could cry! 😂

What about this ? It's navy but with some nice accessories it's super versatile so she'd get wear out of it for other things. Their summer sale is on so lots of bargains.
https://www.reiss.com/style/su628467/f38204#f38204

My DD is also not a girly girl. We found some really nice shorts and a waistcoat in Reiss, with some heels and jewellery she was comfy and smart. I found that the sizing ran large though she is not the height of your daughter. She went from a size 8 to a 4.

Reiss Cotton Shirred Bubble-Hem Mini Dress in Navy - REISS

Shop for Reiss Cotton Shirred Bubble-Hem Mini Dress in Navy online at REISS

https://www.reiss.com/style/su628467/f38204#f38204

Mumwithbaggage · 28/08/2025 12:35

Youngest (21) wore that Nobody's Child dress (in green gingham) to a similar event recently. It was perfect and she said it was very comfortable. In fact, she's since worn it again of her own volition!

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