Why are we pretending like trends don’t exist, or that it’s possible to dress in an untrendy way? I thought it’s universally known, for example, that skinny jeans are no longer trendy, yet you can still buy them. That doesn’t make them magically trendy, it just means enough people still like them enough to make it profitable to continue making them. Yet they are considered dated.
There is certainly a vocal contingent of people out there ‘telling’ people what to wear by basically shaming them if they wear the wrong things. You can either choose to care or not, but they do exist. Personally I can’t be bothered to keep up with what is fashionable at any given age. I have no idea what I’m ‘supposed’ to be wearing at age 44, other than it’s not likely what I do end up wearing.