Saucy but fat

[pnutter]

How do you dress to look slightly saucy at a 14 + not tarty
For a dinner date

Now that would get her laid…
on a plate of chips!

Tell us what youre wearing my op!

Don't do this OP, he'll think he's at an interview.

If you have good boobs I'd say longline blazer with lacy vest, and some tall black heels. I think the shoes and underwear-like top will give you the feeling of sauce that pretty dresses won't.

Size 14 and fat here! I have the nobody's child dress featured above in blue, and also a short version with long sleeves in dark green cord. My husband loves them, refers to them as my "saucy wench" dresses as they very much emphasise the bust! So if that's the look you're wanting I can recommend. I'm also a fan of a silk top, wide leg trousers and a leather jacket when going out for dinner

Do you have pictures/links?

Nice but not saucy.

I think the Nobody's Child dress is great. Also a lot to be said for texture - wearing silky/floaty or very soft fabrics is really appealing and 'touchable'. So maybe a silk/satin shirt or a gorgeous cashmere knit.

There's a clothes label called Miss Candyfloss (ignore the silly name!) which I think is so flattering and feminine (I'm a size 12 and their medium is a bit big on me), I only have one of their dresses because I think they're a little bit too sexy for my usage (wearing to work), have a look at their website or on Vinted and maybe you'll see what I mean. They're modern clothes but with a classic 50s style silhouette which is so flattering for those of us with a bit more scoot in our boots.
Enjoy your date! Hopefully you've also had lots of fun deciding what to wear so it's a winner before you even turn up 😊

OP, if you haven't fled, I am about your age and a size 12, and I would wear something like this. Cathy Satin V-Neck Midi Dress - Burgundy | Baukjen Not necessarily this same one which might be too expensive or too shiny, but similar.

This is gorgeous. Sexy classy and flattering.

Yeah, that'll get you laid.

^

This does seem to be the crux of the matter. Op said saucy.

You don't want to look like Ma Larkin unless you're on a date with Pa Larkin

Would t look good on a bigger tummy area either.

That’s what I mean! Some of these suggestions don’t actually look good on a big stomach.

I'd be pretty "staggered" at any bloke who thinks his opinion on what is an acceptable amount I should pay for a dress is anything I'd pay the slightest attention to. And if he volunteered that £300 is too much there wouldn't be a second date.

https://www.inthestyle.com/products/pleated-wrap-midi-dress?currency=GBP&sku=18061358993144996211720390&gad_source=1&gbraid=0AAAAADDDLA16c6zpwmASxalLTqjhHHkLK&gclid=EAIaIQobChMItYqo7NC7iAMVdaJQBh1GNSCUEAQYAyABEgK4UPD_BwE This looks really flattering, and comes in many colours. You can dress this up as much as you like. X

I love that @mumstheword001
I'm a similar height and size to @pnutter and that style really suits my frame. Plus it is a gorgeous dress 🤩

I would wear something like this I think

ah sorry my pic didn't post trying again!

@IHaveNeverLivedintheCastle

Good for you. I hope you have many successful first dates.

My husband of twenty years is definitely the super honest “fuck me they saw you coming” variety! Makes me laugh every day though and I always know what’s what 😂

Don't concentrate so much on what to wear as to the whole look.

clean fresh shiny hair, skin, teeth. Pretty jewellery and smell good.

Wear what makes you feel sexy - it will show, I promise.

Perhaps a sheer blouse with a cami underneath? With whatever feels smart and comfy on the bottom?

They are so unflattering to the calf as well.

How about a simple pleated midi dress and a pair of comfy heels. Very flattering and a bit silky/sexy without feeling like you're trying to hard.

Forgot the link 🙄

www.newlook.com/uk/womens/clothing/dresses/curves-navy-satin-pleated-wrap-midi-dress/p/896460341

You're still confusing "I don't like this" with "what is in fashion"

If you , general you, are going to talk about "flattering" shoes personally I think clompy, clumpy, high heels are as unflattering as it's possible to get.