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Both dresses are lace but that's it! Totally different style, vibe even different kinds of lace!
OP the first is beautiful (second might be on too) but perhaps you'll find something else off the peg which is more befitting of the venue?
You will no doubt look lovely in it but is there a chance of being upstaged by your guests? At this age weddings are less common and given the venue guests might be well up for full glamour.
Depends on you but this is your chance to take the limelight and enjoy it- you will never be this young and beautiful again (and size 8 wow) so is this what you'd want to look back on in 10 years time?
That said it's a beautiful dress and might be more "you" to go understated and elegant so wear what you feel best in - just giving another perspective. One tip get your hair planned - I booked a stylist who I didn't meet till on the day. She'd had photos of what I wanted but mixed them up and ruined my hair taking too long to fix it as I was late. I sucked it up on the day but hate my photos now- wish I'd been more assertive and checked as she was going along - she turned me away from the mirror so I then had an awful tadaa!! moment 🙈