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Husband called my new slippers 'you've let yourself go' slippers.

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Candathon · 04/11/2023 14:30

I brought some new slippers recently - nice sheepskin ones from John Lewis which I thought looked nice.

I wore them yesterday evening after a hot bath. My husband looked at them, laughed, and in a semi-joking way said they should be called 'you've let yourself go' slippers.

Could anyone recommend some comfy slippers that look like they could be shoes, and cover the whole foot (so not ballet pumps)?

These are the slippers I was wearing: https://www.johnlewis.com/john-lewis-sheepskin-cropped-slipper-boots-light-grey/p110970563?size=3&s_ppc=2dx92700078342469774_brand_mixed_BAU&tmad=c&tmcampid=2&gclid=CjwKCAjw15eqBhBZEiwAbDomEq9KvjXLORj9mTAJxXNnTZXnnoku3kAj4oSrHkGtNOHWGnWqXz3ZHBoCFdcQAvD_BwE&gclsrc=aw.ds

Clearly my husband finds them very unsexy.

Would be interested to know people's thoughts on wearing slippers generally.

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Loubelle70 · 05/11/2023 08:41

Theyre not nice slippers OP ...but would he like you in high heels 😒. Does he wear sweats in the house? Tell him the same. Let yourself go

Gwenhwyfar · 05/11/2023 08:42

TheKnittedCharacter · 04/11/2023 21:30

Slippers make me shrivel up a little inside. I am with your husband.

So how do you keep your feet warm in the winter?

WandaWonder · 05/11/2023 08:46

My husband and I both joke about each other choices sometimes, doesn't stop either of wearing or buying what we want

Slippers are for comfort I presume so wear what you want

WhereAreWeNow · 05/11/2023 08:47

I love slippers. Sheepskin slippers are the best. Slippers are not sexy. I don't care.

ErrolTheDragon · 05/11/2023 08:51

My dm (who'd have been a hundred by now) had some very like that. And why not?!

TheKnittedCharacter · 05/11/2023 09:15

Gwenhwyfar · 05/11/2023 08:42

So how do you keep your feet warm in the winter?

I am always barefoot or wearing socks. Husband the same.

43ontherocksporfavor · 05/11/2023 09:16

I’m either barefoot in summer or I just wear thick thermal socks as slippers

Blueink · 05/11/2023 09:24

PoliticallyIncorrectHitchling · 05/11/2023 08:58

I'm buying these for myself op. Looks like you need them too!

https://www.rockettstgeorge.co.uk/products/fuck-off-black-slippers

Yep these are the replacement, if one is needed OP 😂

Alohapotato · 05/11/2023 09:51

RudsyFarmer · 04/11/2023 14:37

I would take that as a judgement about some other area he’s not happy about OP. If they were on the feet of a size 8 Insta model I’m going to guess they’d still be fuckable. So my assumption would be that he’s not happy with your sex life and it’s a handy thing to be scathing about.

Exactly.

Whowhatwherewhenwhy1 · 05/11/2023 09:55

Arkhamasylum · 05/11/2023 08:23

Tell him you bought them to match your ‘I’ve let myself go’ husband. Slippers are to keep your feet warm not to arouse him, the twit.

This 😂

DoratheFlora · 05/11/2023 10:16

My DH would love those slippers!

Maybe keep the slippers and find a new DH?

mydogisthebest · 05/11/2023 10:20

I think you should wear whatever slippers you want. Having said that, I am 69, and no way would I wear those slippers. No, slippers are not meant to be sexy and mine aren't but neither do I want slippers that look like a 100 year old would wear them

darksoya · 05/11/2023 10:38

My mother who is 84 has never worn slippers. She thinks they are for old people.

I wear leather Seibel soft soled clogs in winter https://www.amazon.co.uk/Josef-Seibel-Womens-Betsy-Clogs/dp/B002OL2GZ0.

Bare footed in summer. Would never wear slippers.

https://www.amazon.co.uk/Josef-Seibel-Womens-Betsy-Clogs/dp/B002OL2GZ0?tag=mumsnet&ascsubtag=mnforum-21

Snoeberry · 05/11/2023 10:42

I think you need these OP

Husband called my new slippers 'you've let yourself go' slippers.
travelogue · 05/11/2023 10:47

Don't look much different to the ultra short Uggs the kids are wearing with UO jogging pants and hoodies - so tell him you are embracing your inner teenager. I actually have them to pull on to do the school bus run at 7am, anyone challenging my fashion sense at the time in the morning would get short shrift from me 😁

RethinkingLife · 05/11/2023 11:14

Slippers are allegedly the item of clothing most associated with accidents.

Supportive, cosy, not slip-ons, these are all good things.

https://www.podo.london/single-post/the-health-dangers-of-wearing-slippers-around-your-home-ankle-instability-and-curly-toes

UndercoverCop · 05/11/2023 11:57

If DH said this to me I'd laugh in his face and then start regularly doing a sexy slipper dance wherever I was wearing them. When I was pregnant it was winter and I was cold, DH had a furry Chewbacca onesie that he'd worn once as fancy dress which I adopted as a sort of house coat. The cat loved it and DH just needs to count himself lucky that he gets to hang out with me

Isitautumnyet23 · 05/11/2023 11:58

Gwenhwyfar · 05/11/2023 08:42

So how do you keep your feet warm in the winter?

I just wear socks 🤷🏼‍♀️(never worn slippers, have wooden floors downstairs). Your house would have to be very cold if socks are not enough to keep them warm (im thinking cottages with stone floors are probably the only homes that really need slippers).

SpicedAppleAndFreshCider · 05/11/2023 12:02

Isitautumnyet23 · 05/11/2023 11:58

I just wear socks 🤷🏼‍♀️(never worn slippers, have wooden floors downstairs). Your house would have to be very cold if socks are not enough to keep them warm (im thinking cottages with stone floors are probably the only homes that really need slippers).

I'm the same. I don't wear slippers just chunky socks if it's cold.

ChimbarasiKotapaxi · 05/11/2023 12:06

They are lovely

Isitautumnyet23 · 05/11/2023 12:09

SpicedAppleAndFreshCider · 05/11/2023 12:02

I'm the same. I don't wear slippers just chunky socks if it's cold.

There are some really lovely slipper socks out there at the moment, but i’ll buy them as gifts purely for the novelty of wearing reindeer or fox socks 😀 Actual slippers in our home (which is still a 1930’s home), would be pointless. Socks do the job.

Judystilldreamsofhorses · 05/11/2023 12:22

I have Birkenstock Boston shearling clog slippers. My DP hates them so much, but actually bought them for me last Christmas because he knows I love the shoe version of them that I already had.

Yours are fine, OP. I teach undergraduate level and lots of the girls wear similar as actual outside footwear.

SplendidUtterly · 05/11/2023 12:46

Damn, still know update picture of her DH sexy footwear?
We all await with bated breath OP!

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