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Things that you suspect you’ll never find in your search for the ‘perfect’version?

191 replies

Niftythrifter · 28/08/2023 08:52

What ‘perfect’ version of an item have you given up on?

For me it’s the perfect Bretton stripe cardigan and jumper.

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BaconAndAvocado · 29/08/2023 07:28

The perfect pink lipstick.
I have accrued well over a 100 hundred lipsticks and glosses in n my search for the holy grail of lip colours.

I don't even know what it is!
Just needs to be a proper "pink", not nude, nor too bright but not too subtle, a classy hue.....aghhhhh!

My name is Bacon and I'm a lipaholic.

Scousemousey · 29/08/2023 07:58

Revlon's Pink in the Afternoon is a warm mid pink that is like the same colour of my lips but a few shades darker. Inexpensive on amazon..

SquirrelFan · 29/08/2023 08:20

@L1verp00l1 Oh thank you so much! I have ordered one - can't wait to see it in person!

PuppyMcPupFace · 29/08/2023 08:38

NecklessMumster · 28/08/2023 21:17

Silver nail polish, that looks proper bright silver, not grey, more chromey. But not gel as I only use ordinary varnish

Have you tried Rimmel? I have a lovely one from there but it's difficult to get off!

PuppyMcPupFace · 29/08/2023 08:39

A t shirt bra that hoiks up without emphasising back fat and armpit bulge in 34GG

Octomingo · 29/08/2023 09:30

I have never found the perfect push up bra for f cup boobs.

They are either all padding, so pull my boobs down.

Or they give me double boob.

Or you can see them under vests.

Think I've tried every brand. Including an old fashioned wonderbra.

Surely, if they can build spaceships and bridges, they can scaffold a few bits of material and boning.

And knickers that don't go up your bum. Even the belly warmers end up up your bum once you get to work.

Maybe this should go on the girls in STEM thread.

anon2022anon · 29/08/2023 10:37

@FrillyGoatFluff I might be able to help on both those fronts.
Genuinely great pants, don't size up https://amzn.eu/d/b9GyuQU

Zara leopard
https://www.zara.com/uk/en/ballet-flats-with-animal-print-p12591110.html?v1=267195546&v2=2291354#selectedColor=195&origin=shopcart

Zara gold (might be a bit brash)
https://www.zara.com/uk/en/ballet-flats-with-buckles-p11503210.html?v1=275475720&v2=2291354

They also have some silver ones, but I don't like the toe shape. ASOS have some nice Topshop silver ones, but only smaller sizes left

clowniform · 29/08/2023 11:47

@SollaSollew I do find the 70s soles better than regular Converse but the canvas still isn't soft and the toebox is worse!

AgingDisgracefullyHere · 29/08/2023 11:59

Knee high boots that don't gap around my skinny calves.

LadyMadderLake · 29/08/2023 12:00

Aah bacon I bet my discontinued l'occitane one would have been it! Perfection it was...

YoshimisMum · 29/08/2023 12:15

@SquirrelFan
I do hope the Ralph Lauren one works for you. I would be very tempted but not sure how the fold over cuff would work as I prefer a 'fitted' 3/4 sleeve. As an alternative, the nearest I've got to your/mine holy grail t shirt (after numerous attempts) is this M&S version ....

Things that you suspect you’ll never find in your search for the ‘perfect’version?
Things that you suspect you’ll never find in your search for the ‘perfect’version?
clowniform · 29/08/2023 12:15

AgingDisgracefullyHere · 29/08/2023 11:59

Knee high boots that don't gap around my skinny calves.

Are Duoboots still around? Specialise in different calf sizes

trailsofberries · 29/08/2023 12:52

Thanks @BIossomtoes and @Moonflower12 I'll look those up.

AgingDisgracefullyHere · 29/08/2023 13:02

clowniform · 29/08/2023 12:15

Are Duoboots still around? Specialise in different calf sizes

They are! I think I'm just too cheap to pay those prices. But for a classic pair I ought to be willing to pay more.

TooExtraImmatureCheddar · 29/08/2023 13:05

The perfect nude bra in a 34G that isn’t see-through, doesn’t have padding, doesn’t only come in a full-cup style, doesn’t have really high wires that come right up my sternum, and doesn’t have giant thick granny straps. Curvy Kate did one briefly and I managed to get it in a dusty pink plunge style, but the nude one sold out instantly and then they discontinued it in favour of all their horrible porn-star bras.

BaconAndAvocado · 29/08/2023 15:08

Scousemousey · 29/08/2023 07:58

Revlon's Pink in the Afternoon is a warm mid pink that is like the same colour of my lips but a few shades darker. Inexpensive on amazon..

Scousemousey I have that one! It is very nice but not The One.

anon2022anon · 29/08/2023 15:40

Flat shoes that I feel look great with a going out/ event dress. Just don't feel dresses up wearing flats. Wear them anyway, but feel mis matched

RemusLupinsBiggestGroupie · 29/08/2023 16:31

clowniform · 29/08/2023 11:47

@SollaSollew I do find the 70s soles better than regular Converse but the canvas still isn't soft and the toebox is worse!

Mine are leather, which are always more comfortable than the canvas, I think. They do rub my little toes a bit though, if I walk more than about 5 miles.

Cinnamonandcoal · 29/08/2023 22:28

TooExtraImmatureCheddar · 29/08/2023 13:05

The perfect nude bra in a 34G that isn’t see-through, doesn’t have padding, doesn’t only come in a full-cup style, doesn’t have really high wires that come right up my sternum, and doesn’t have giant thick granny straps. Curvy Kate did one briefly and I managed to get it in a dusty pink plunge style, but the nude one sold out instantly and then they discontinued it in favour of all their horrible porn-star bras.

You could try Bravissimo Niya. I love it.

For those looking for raincoats I just got a waterproof trench from Protected Species with a big hood. Comes in a few colours.

I would like comfortable heels for my wide feet but I don't think they exist.

I've been looking for the perfect black shirt dress that fits a J cup. Probably does exist but haven't found it yet.

Middleagedmeangirls · 29/08/2023 22:39

Primark t shirts are the best. Reasonably priced, long length, good quality, wash like a dream, mostly cotton with a little Lycra. Huge range of colours. They do slouchy or stretch, v neck or round, long sleeved or short. Amazing.

years ago they did some with slash necks and I still have one. Such a flattering look. I wish they still did them.

mdinbc · 29/08/2023 23:31

for Raincoat suggestion: The Lululemon Rain Rebel. The hood is generous but stays up in wind, the material not plastic feeling. It's well made and stylish.