I look old, that's because I am old.
It has nothing to do with envy and spite, I'm quite easy going and kind, I think!
When I saw the photos I thought OP was mid 30s and Granny mid 60s, so I wasn't far wrong.
I'm older than both of them. I haven't got glasses and I have long hair but I do have plenty of wrinkles and a double chin.
Why are people so worried about looking older? I think FFSCarrieBradshaw looks great btw.