I also don't understand the hate and the vitriol and the 'throwing shade' on somebody that wants to spend 800 pounds on a handbag. Personally, I wouldn't do that. I'd probably be happy with one for 40 or 50 pounds. But people spend 4000 to 5000 pounds on a holiday when they could get one much cheaper, they'll spend 20,000 pounds on a car where they could probably a decent one for 6000 or 7000 pounds, and some people buy a house for maybe 250,000 pounds for a four bedroom when they only need the three bed that they could get for 70,000 pounds less.
If people have got the money and want to spend more, and they want to spend 800 pounds on a handbag, it's nobody else's business.
Me and my DH aren't massive earners tbf ... Think 45,000 pounds between us. (I'm part time.) And I would never spend that much on a handbag. Probably would only spend about 500 pounds each on a holiday. Like a coach trip.
We are comfortable tbf, but very frugal.
One of my DC, however, has a YouTube channel that's got around 45,000 subscribers. And over the past year and a half they have spent approximately 2500 pounds on equipment to do the 'youtube content. 'They also spent £300 on one gift for us for our 30th wedding anniversary.
I was also fawning over something on this quirky bohemian market in London summer 2021, but it was actually 75 pounds. It was just a lovely quirky ornament. There's no way that I would have spent that. And while my back was turned, my DC actually bought it for me. Just gave it to me purely 'because I wanted it...' 75 pounds to them is like me spending 15 to 20 pounds. As a few posters have said, it's all relative and 800 pounds isn't a lot for some people.
I know it's really horrible to not have a lot of money. Like I say, we're not massively loaded and we had a good 15 to 20 years of being not too well off - indeed on the bones of our arse sometimes. (When we had the kids at home, and still had a mortgage.) But it's no good hating on people who've got money just because you haven't got it - or other people haven't got it.
If anybody's got the money to spend 800 pounds on a handbag, then I'm glad for them as long as they're not spending the children's money or the bills money, which in most cases they're probably not.
Hope you find your handbag @gentlydirk 