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Engagement ring

215 replies

ramanw · 04/03/2023 12:41

Can I see people's engagement rings please!

I need some inspiration.

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IhearyouClemFandango · 05/03/2023 19:39

Goodness my hands look old 😬

Half carat brilliant cut in platinum
Halo profile platinum band
Skinny eternity ring

IhearyouClemFandango · 05/03/2023 19:39

Bugger

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Chocolatetadpole · 05/03/2023 19:44

This is mine, I love it ❤️

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Amybelle88 · 05/03/2023 23:46

YouOKHun · 05/03/2023 01:07

There are some beautiful rings on this thread. I’m also impressed by all the beautifully manicured nails! Here’s mine. It’s a 1920s ring.

(not to self: sun block is for hands too and have your first manicure at 56 years of age 😬).

Adore your signet ring, too!

dazzlingdeborahrose · 06/03/2023 11:30

@Enko beautiful ring. We clearly have excellent taste 😂
Thoroughly enjoying seeing all the beautiful rings on this thread.

HowdoIgetbacktothe80s · 06/03/2023 11:48

I got engaged when I was 17, many moons ago. I’m not so keen on the style anymore so tend to wear this Pandora 2 piece these days. I’m considering having the stones from my engagement ring reset into something else but not sure what.

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HowdoIgetbacktothe80s · 06/03/2023 11:51

I can’t believe how many of you keep your nails so well manicured. They look so lovely.

ramanw · 06/03/2023 12:33

Oh I love these!!

Thanks everyone.

Partner has just ordered mine. I picked it myself as what's the point in getting one I don't like. I'm worrying now though - I selected a 9ct white gold ring as it just looks really nice. I had now read that perhaps it's not quite as long lasting as an 18ct and perhaps tarnishes??

Anyone have a 9 that still looks amazing years later?

Have I made a mistake? It looks sooo nice though.

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diamondsandpearl · 06/03/2023 13:39

@ramanw I'm sure that will be absolutely beautiful! And don't worry about the material.

While gold won't tarnish as such, it will however loose its rhodium plating over time (turns a champagne type colour) you can have it re-plated though and doesn't cost too much money..

My original engagement ring was 9ct white gold, I wore it daily without fail for 3 years and it was only JUST starting to turn champagne toned on the underside of the ring, where my hand was in contact with different things and therefore rubbing. Also, my biggest word of advice would be to avoid hand sanitiser whilst wearing your white gold. It does wear away at the rhodium plating over time.

I've now gone for platinum, but never ever had an issue with my original white-gold ring!! It was just too delicate to down-size which I was gutted about!!!

I hope that helps x x

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BridieConvert · 06/03/2023 14:21

This is mine, photo taken the day we got engaged, 8 years ago :)

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halfthesun · 06/03/2023 16:32

I chose mine ... just before Christmas Daffodil

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Sameiam · 06/03/2023 17:11

Mine is about as simple as they come as I’ve never been a big jewellery person. Was pretty vocal about what I wanted, partner originally was thinking a big sapphire that wouldn’t have suited me. Still talked him down a bit on the carat size, this already looks big on me! I think it’s 1.7 carats?

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Thekirit · 06/03/2023 18:48

ramanw · 06/03/2023 12:33

Oh I love these!!

Thanks everyone.

Partner has just ordered mine. I picked it myself as what's the point in getting one I don't like. I'm worrying now though - I selected a 9ct white gold ring as it just looks really nice. I had now read that perhaps it's not quite as long lasting as an 18ct and perhaps tarnishes??

Anyone have a 9 that still looks amazing years later?

Have I made a mistake? It looks sooo nice though.

Yes mines 9ct white gold, both engagement and wedding ring
No tarnishing at all

Although does look like it needs a bit of a clean. Literally rub it with a cloth and it shines.
I should say I do lots of diy with Louis of nasty chemicals and all sorts and really bad at wearing glove protection. So mine have been through a lot.
Posted on an early page of thread.

SettlingForAnotherMuffin · 06/03/2023 19:12

Eternity ring and another ring I bought myself when I turned 45. My engagement ring is being repaired- ruby and diamonds.

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ImAvingOops · 06/03/2023 19:17

OP there are different qualities of white gold and the colour they are once the rhodium plating wears off, will depend on the mix. I have two whole gold rings, one definitely needs replating but the other is now just a nice silvery colour and doesn't need it. So it just depends really.

Even with the one which needs replating it is only visible on the underside. The setting hasn't worn at all

Lndnmummy · 06/03/2023 19:35

Mine

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mastertomsmum · 06/03/2023 23:07

HowdoIgetbacktothe80s · 06/03/2023 11:48

I got engaged when I was 17, many moons ago. I’m not so keen on the style anymore so tend to wear this Pandora 2 piece these days. I’m considering having the stones from my engagement ring reset into something else but not sure what.

Oh yes, the one on the left is so much nicer

mastertomsmum · 06/03/2023 23:08

halfthesun · 06/03/2023 16:32

I chose mine ... just before Christmas Daffodil

That’s lovely

Poochypaws · 06/03/2023 23:30

Not my engagement ring as divorced. Could be an engagement ring though. Treated myself when I turned 50. Rose cut diamonds. I think edwardian.

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throwawayaway1 · 06/03/2023 23:45

@Poochypaws

That's really beautiful. Great 50th present!

CobraChicken · 07/03/2023 00:19

AperolSpritzUmbrella · 05/03/2023 08:01

Sapphire solitaire. A replacement for the original. Wedding band needs something doing to it to match the shine. Have tried just a clean. Maybe a replate.

@AperolSpritzUmbrella

Yours is my favourite ring from the whole the thread. I love sapphires. DH just got a me a second hand white gold Tiffany ring with two tiny baguette sapphires in it for my upcoming 50th birthday. I love the colour of them.

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Bluelightbaby · 07/03/2023 13:12

This was my engagement ring from my exhusband . I got it after 15yrs of marriage and loved it. Was sad to get rid of it when we divorced but it wasn’t a happy marriage at all :(
white gold, diamond and tanzanite.

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Thekirit · 07/03/2023 15:24

Bluelightbaby · 07/03/2023 13:12

This was my engagement ring from my exhusband . I got it after 15yrs of marriage and loved it. Was sad to get rid of it when we divorced but it wasn’t a happy marriage at all :(
white gold, diamond and tanzanite.

It’s stunning
Why did you have to get ride of it after you divorced….just the memories.
In which case I’d be tempted to get the stones reset. The cut on the tanzanite is beautiful.

ForTheLoveOfSleep · 07/03/2023 15:43

Topaz, diamonds and white gold.

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Lovelydovey · 07/03/2023 16:31

Diamond and platinum engagement ring. And antique platinum wedding band and antique platinum and diamond eternity ring.

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