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Will people wear black tomorrow?

164 replies

MintyFinty · 08/09/2022 21:47

I work in a fairly traditional environment. Not sure if I should wear black tomorrow or not? What's everyone else doing?

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Bouledeneige · 08/09/2022 23:47

WTAF? I work as a CEO of a professional body, many of our members are very loyal to royalty and we work on daily basis with senior government officials. No one has suggested changing how we dress.

ivykaty44 · 08/09/2022 23:56

Might also have a flutter on the horses, it's what she would've wanted

you’ll have a job

PurplePansy05 · 09/09/2022 00:00

I can never understand people getting all heated up about wearing/not wearing black after someone's death, just let people do what they feel, there's no harm here to anyone

1982mommaof4 · 09/09/2022 00:12

We have been asked to, I would anyway.

Twirlywoo · 09/09/2022 00:13

Kids wearing dark clothes to school because the Queen died......how grim!

Allthegoodnamesarechosen · 09/09/2022 00:24

Tania64 · 08/09/2022 23:08

This is so funny, Did you really think that I thought that the request was made by the Queens family?? Ha ha. Of course not. As I said if I was a wage slave & my employer made such a request I would tell them where to go & come to work in a red outfit. The being sent to the tower was just tongue in cheek humour, nothing to do with the royals sending people there.

we all understand that you are a superior free spirit, not a ‘wage slave ‘ like the posters you have been discourteous to.

maybe take your boasting and your rather misplaced ‘ humour’ somewhere that it would be appreciated? Not sure where that is, but I’m sure you will inform us.

AbstractDream · 09/09/2022 00:27

Do people normally wear black if someone dies? I thought it was just to funerals.

rnsaslkih · 09/09/2022 00:29

Hadn’t occurred to me but I do generally wear at least some black everyday anyway.

DillDanding · 09/09/2022 00:32

I work in local govt. Not that many of us ever go into the office these days, but there’s no way I’d be instructing my team to wear black.

I’m part of senior management and it has not been suggested in comms this evening about the queen.

I have a lunch meeting in a restaurant tomorrow and I’ve just ironed an orange dress to wear.

Novum · 09/09/2022 00:35

I was in a work-related meeting this evening. Must admit it never occurred to me to change into something black.

DeoForty · 09/09/2022 00:45

If there is one thing I've learned from today, it's that not enough people are content with rolling their eyes inwardly (or even outwardly) but instead must tell everyone on social media that they are doing so. I might agree with your sentiment, but you lose brownie points for being at pains to tell the internet how free thinking/republican you are. Nobody cares.

StolenWillowTree · 09/09/2022 00:49

I'll be wearing bright pink.

It isn't disrespectful to the Queen and I don't know her from Adam. To me she's just another stranger who happens to have died, no different from the other hundreds of thousands of people worldwide who died yesterday.

If people want to wear black then let them, I don't judge just as I wouldn't judge the millions of people around the world who will be mourning their own loved ones.

It wouldn't even occur to me to wear black because some random stranger died, and I certainly wouldn't be ordered or bullied into it.

StolenWillowTree · 09/09/2022 00:51

DeoForty · 09/09/2022 00:45

If there is one thing I've learned from today, it's that not enough people are content with rolling their eyes inwardly (or even outwardly) but instead must tell everyone on social media that they are doing so. I might agree with your sentiment, but you lose brownie points for being at pains to tell the internet how free thinking/republican you are. Nobody cares.

Yes, so different from those lovely discreet Monarchists, bragging all over social media about what they'll be doing to mark the death, engaging in public competitive-mourning, and making spiteful nasty jabs at people who don't feel the death of a stranger affects them and dislike it being forced upon them.

Sorry but you lose brownie points for being at pains to tell the Internet how loyal/nationalistic you are. Nobody cares.

ChaToilLeam · 09/09/2022 00:54

No. For her friends and family it is a sad time but I didn’t know her and won’t be participating in any kind of mourning. I would not be happy being told what to wear during this time.

Cameleongirl · 09/09/2022 01:05

I don't even live in the UK now, but I've decided to wear something muted to work tomorrow, probably navy or dark green. It's just a personal choice as I'm genuinely sad that the Queen has died.

IheartJKRowling · 09/09/2022 01:40

cherrysthename · 08/09/2022 22:42

I had no idea this would be expected! It's like being in Victorian times all of a sudden.
The thought has never even crossed my mind when loved ones have died.
I'll be in the 'disrespectful' camp 🙄. I'm really not sure how dressing in a certain colour is a mark of respect. The queen isn't alive to see it and if she were, it's not like any of us would ever have met her!

Thank God, there is someone with some sense on here. It's not the 19th Century and we are no longer serfs or beholden to the Crown. Absolutely ridiculous reactions, why would you consider changing what you wear for a woman who didn't even know you existed?

pompomdaisy · 09/09/2022 02:00

I am on zoom all day so will wear something dark on top then bright coloured rainbow pyjama bottoms!

Panpastels · 09/09/2022 02:19

I don't work on a Friday but no, I would not change what I wear because someone I don't know has died.

generalh · 09/09/2022 05:41

BadlydoneHelen · 08/09/2022 23:26

Education sector: a message tonight asking us to wear smart/muted clothing tomorrow

I am in that sector. No such email for my school. I am getting up soon and will see what I have to wear which is more suited for the weather than the passing of a monarch.

FormerlySpeckledyHen · 09/09/2022 06:49

Don’t be ridiculous. I haven’t got anything black anyway! It doesn’t suit me.

generalh · 09/09/2022 06:57

I went with a black tshirt and beige linen trousers and black mules because they go.

UseOfWeapons · 09/09/2022 07:07

I’ll be wearing dark blue scrubs.

alwaysdarkestbeforedawn · 09/09/2022 07:52

@StolenWillowTree A”random stranger”?! You’re deluded if you think you’re not being disrespectful.

echobunnies · 09/09/2022 07:55

I was wondering the same OP! I do own a black dress but it’s very formal and I thought it would look overdramatic especially on a Friday when people usually dress down. In the end I’ve gone for a dark navy dress.

On the station platform this morning I did notice a few more people than usual (office worker types) who were wearing black.

inappropriateraspberry · 09/09/2022 08:11

My husband has gone to work in a black suit and tie. I think, even if you don't feel you should wear black for the Queen, it's a mark of respect for those that are feeling upset, colleagues, friends, customers etc.

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