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Will people wear black tomorrow?

164 replies

MintyFinty · 08/09/2022 21:47

I work in a fairly traditional environment. Not sure if I should wear black tomorrow or not? What's everyone else doing?

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Houseplantmad · 08/09/2022 22:03

I’m planning to.

AnneElliott · 08/09/2022 22:09

I'll wear black tomorrow when I go into the office. But I'm a civil servant and it would be expected.

emmetgirl · 08/09/2022 22:12

For goodness sake of course not.

PurpleDaisies · 08/09/2022 22:12

No. But it’s a day off and I’m going to the supermarket. I don’t think anyone in Sainsburys will notice.

Augend23 · 08/09/2022 22:13

I'm not attached to black but I don't think I'll be wearing my bright red or bright orange or pink dresses. I'll pick something muted and inoffensive.

FrecklesMalone · 08/09/2022 22:14

Of course not.

billysmallnuts · 08/09/2022 22:15

This came up on a chat with several of my friends who are ageing goths.

mrslees1 · 08/09/2022 22:15

I will be wearing black as a mark of respect

NuffSaidSam · 08/09/2022 22:15

Meltingsocks · 08/09/2022 21:58

Wow, doesn't that make you angry? Being told to grieve for someone you never met by your employer? Total infringement of personal freedoms

They've not asked her to grieve, just to wear black. She could be over the moon that the Queen's dead as long as she's wearing the appropriate clothing for her job.

CaptainBarbosa · 08/09/2022 22:15

We have been asked to wear dark clothing till after the funeral, and to avoid bright patterns or bright colours.

Suzi888 · 08/09/2022 22:16

Meltingsocks · 08/09/2022 21:58

Wow, doesn't that make you angry? Being told to grieve for someone you never met by your employer? Total infringement of personal freedoms

🙄There are many things to angry about in life, children starving perhaps.

TwoMonthsOff · 08/09/2022 22:16

I can’t because of my dandruff

PurpleDaisies · 08/09/2022 22:17

Suzi888 · 08/09/2022 22:16

🙄There are many things to angry about in life, children starving perhaps.

Not this crap again. People are capable of caring about more than one issue.

MsAnnFrope · 08/09/2022 22:17

Nope, unless work makes us.

Tania64 · 08/09/2022 22:17

Meltingsocks · 08/09/2022 21:58

Wow, doesn't that make you angry? Being told to grieve for someone you never met by your employer? Total infringement of personal freedoms

As most people support this rotten institution these expectations will be there. If I had the misfortune to be a wage slave I would go into work tomorrow in red. What can these people do to you? Put you in the tower.

SheWoreYellow · 08/09/2022 22:18

I wear a mixture, so tomorrow I may as well choose something on the darker side.

MissLucyEyelesbarrow · 08/09/2022 22:18

I'm an employer. We won't be telling staff what to wear, but I will wear black tomorrow as I think many of the team will expect it and would find it disrespectful if I didn't.

Wineat5isfine · 08/09/2022 22:22

Yes, out of respect for our beloved queen, I will wear black tmrw, despite the fact I work from home.

TabithaTittlemouse · 08/09/2022 22:22

I’ll be in scrubs.

Brokendaughter · 08/09/2022 22:24

I'm already wearing black due to the recent death of my father, but I wouldn't wear it because of the Queen although I'm sure some random people I see will think that's why.

FourChimneys · 08/09/2022 22:25

My only black clothes are a pair of lycra running leggings and a rather worn out 10k race t-shirt. Neither of which would be suitable for what I'm doing.

Green and purply red for me.

PixellatedPixie · 08/09/2022 22:25

billysmallnuts · 08/09/2022 22:15

This came up on a chat with several of my friends who are ageing goths.

🤣 this is brilliant! Reminds me of when I was a young goth and people would jokingly ask if I was on the way to a funeral.

ExecutiveStrategyCoordinator · 08/09/2022 22:26

Did you know her? No. Then don't be daft.

billysmallnuts · 08/09/2022 22:26

Ha, yeah they're very left wing, some socialist. Sounds like they're considering wearing red tomorrow.

Devo1818 · 08/09/2022 22:26

Yes I will be wearing black.