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What now looks dated

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clashingcolours · 30/06/2022 09:17

As in looks you've worn in recent years that now look wrong or frumpy? (no Mumsnet debate on the word frumpy please!)

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AGoatisGood · 30/06/2022 16:37

If denim jackets and cardigans are dated, what are you all wearing over summer dresses when it gets cold?

sunglassesonthetable · 30/06/2022 16:37

It exists in Liverpool and Newcastle. As well as other Northern towns like Wigan, Barrow etc. There has always been a more glam look in those places than in London or Manchester though.

I used to be in Liverpool alot. And remember Fridays, with young women walking around with their hair in curlers and big scarves and a face full of m'up. Ready for the evening. Loved it.

@FortonServices

AnnaFF · 30/06/2022 16:39

AGoatisGood · 30/06/2022 16:37

If denim jackets and cardigans are dated, what are you all wearing over summer dresses when it gets cold?

I think the majority of people on this thread still wear both.

speakout · 30/06/2022 16:40

Heels, a tan. Lip fillers.

sunglassesonthetable · 30/06/2022 16:40

If denim jackets and cardigans are dated, what are you all wearing over summer dresses when it gets cold?

They are bang now ( except perhaps delicate thin cardis ) if you look around.

That does make them 'dated' for some fashionistas. But for everyone else they're great.

Eeksteek · 30/06/2022 16:41

Primatrying · 30/06/2022 12:11

Oh dear. This thread, to me, should be titled "things you like wearing and comprise 90% of your wardrobe"!

Me too! Wearing a tunic dress and leggings today. Skinny jeans tomorrow!

I DGAF about fashion. I wear what’s comfortable and pleases me. But it has to be said that styles do denote eras. Dated, though is a peculiar concept. Modern stuff, like boyfriend jeans or high waisted jeans look really dated to me. High waisted jeans look like Mom-jeans, especially with no belt (which is how I believe they are worn!) and baggy ones, and all the really flappy jump suits and culottes look very, very 90’s, when you got lost inside your clothes as standard! You just need a huge sweater shop sloppy jumper, and you’re good to go! Especially with awful clunky shoes or massive trainers. What is it with them? I’m pretty sure I was wearing long print skirts with denim jackets and massive shoes in the 90’s as well.

I assume this is because I’m Gen X, and was forming a lot of my personal grown up style (such as it is) in my twenties in the early noughties. It took me a LONG time to warm to skinny jeans because they looked so 70’s/early 80’s to me. But if you grew up with your mum in skinnies and leggings, the baggy style probably looks very fresh and different.

I can’t imagine the (not-extremely-skinny-or-baggy) jeans, Breton top and blazer look ever not looking classic, but for the nuances. Maybe not on trend, but that’s the point, isn’t it? Trends always date, they have to, or they couldn’t be a trend. On the whole, I think most high street fashion looked absurd then, and it looks absurd now. I’m picky though. I make most of my own clothes that aren’t stretchy (stretchy is a pain to sew). I dare say they look fairly stupid if you’re not me, too. Fortunately, I am me!

Nanananananana99 · 30/06/2022 16:42

vestedinterests · 30/06/2022 09:21

Three- quarter sleeve cropped cardis to wear with dresses in the summer

Nooooooooooooo

AnnaFF · 30/06/2022 16:42

They are bang now ( except perhaps delicate thin cardis ) if you look around.

I'm old. What does this mean?

Nanananananana99 · 30/06/2022 16:44

It is hard to call anything dated at the moment, when the ‘youth’ is all dressed fresh out of 2002!

redlou123 · 30/06/2022 16:44

If I stopped wearing skinny jeans or dresses/tunics with leggings and cardigans, I'd be naked most of the time, that is basically my wardrobe! Very glad of the move from heels to trainers though. I'm 6 months pregnant at the moment however so I'm mainly just wearing whatever still fits Grin

puffalo · 30/06/2022 16:47

AGoatisGood · 30/06/2022 16:37

If denim jackets and cardigans are dated, what are you all wearing over summer dresses when it gets cold?

You can still wear denim jackets.

I either go oversized and longer so it’s bum length, or cropped and boxy.

I also still wear cardigans. Same concept applies; either longer and bigger, or cropped and boxy.

Very few of my jackets are form fitting which makes outfits look a bit stuffy (in my opinion). Oversized adds a relaxed vibe and it’s a hell of a lot comfier to chuck on over something, too.

Cropped items tend to scare people off but I think they’re really flattering, especially if they stop just above your waist, as that really nips you in. If you’re conscious about your tummy (as I am after having 2 kids and 2 c sections), a line silhouettes skim over your tummy and high waisted items work really well.

sunglassesonthetable · 30/06/2022 16:47

@AnnaFF

Cardis are being worn by all ages, everywhere right now. 😀😉

AnnaFF · 30/06/2022 16:49

sunglassesonthetable · 30/06/2022 16:47

@AnnaFF

Cardis are being worn by all ages, everywhere right now. 😀😉

This is good to know and thank you.

ShandaLear · 30/06/2022 16:52

daisyjgrey · 30/06/2022 11:43

You can prise my cardigans out of my cold dead hands.

Hard agree. Less formal than a jacket, more practical than a jumper. They are the perfect clothing item.

Maireas · 30/06/2022 17:03

clashingcolours · 30/06/2022 09:17

As in looks you've worn in recent years that now look wrong or frumpy? (no Mumsnet debate on the word frumpy please!)

No debate on the word "frumpy" ?!
I don't think you get to decide the terms! 😂

boogiewithasuitcase · 30/06/2022 17:04

Nanananananana99 · 30/06/2022 16:44

It is hard to call anything dated at the moment, when the ‘youth’ is all dressed fresh out of 2002!

Yes! This is certainly the case where I live.

Tigofigo · 30/06/2022 17:06

I feel leopard print is a bit done, especially in the usual brown colours.

Cold shoulder tops and dresses.

Tulip shaped skirts

Skirt suits

Braggiography · 30/06/2022 17:07

ShandaLear · 30/06/2022 16:52

Hard agree. Less formal than a jacket, more practical than a jumper. They are the perfect clothing item.

Yep. It'll take more than some weak accusations of dated frumpery to get the cardigans off my back.

outofbedtime · 30/06/2022 17:11

Magicpaintbrush · 30/06/2022 13:42

So much of what is mentioned here is in my wardrobe mainly because I cannot afford to update it. I can't even afford to splash out on a new pair of socks at the moment. So all I live in are skinny jeans, basic tops and cardigans with pumps. My sister very kindly bought myself and DH tickets to a concert in London tomorrow and I just don't know what the hell I'm going to wear, I feel so embarrassed of my clothes, I'd burn them all if I could replace them.

The vast majority of people there to enjoy the music will be wearing comfy clothes with trainers so that they can dance so please don't worry. The posers will be too busy taking photos for their Insta so won't be looking at what you're wearing so please don't feel embarrassed, enjoy your gig.

SpidersAreShitheads · 30/06/2022 17:12

This whole thread is like someone is listing my wardrobe 😂😂

I'm OK with that though. I wear what I like even if very clearly no one else likes it 😂

Benjispruce4 · 30/06/2022 17:13

I have DDs of 21 and 18 so they keep me on trend.
OUT- skinny jeans, court shoes,
IN- wide leg jeans and trousers, heeled sandals or trainers, baggy sweatshirts or cropped tight vests with baggy jeans.

Benjispruce4 · 30/06/2022 17:13

I don’t do the cropped vest bit at 51.😀

Maireas · 30/06/2022 17:13

FarFarFarAndAway · 30/06/2022 12:45

So far I've read on here that biker jackets, denim jackets and cardigans are all dated. What do you wear on top of a dress then (or indeed anything) when you go out in the Late Spring, Summer, Early Autumn? Or to keep warm? I haven't seen many jumpers under the circumstances.

I'm mystified as to what some people actually wear...

A poncho crocheted from orange nylon fibre.

PollyPingit · 30/06/2022 17:14

KentishMiss · 30/06/2022 12:10

I think what should be dated is telling people what they wear is dated. We are all individuals with our own style and tastes and more obviously differing budgets. It is wrong of us as women to tell another woman what she wears is dated, we have no idea what other women are going through in their lives and have no right to comment on their clothes

This ⬆️⬆️⬆️👌🏻 Just what I wanted to say!

Nothappyatwork · 30/06/2022 17:15

Clinched waists and wedges and a cardi all todays offering from primark

What now looks dated