@zigzaggaway nice outfit and i don't like brenton or strips really (don't know why).
@Shannith & @Sooverthemill 
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for having recovered.
@Missatkins thanks my user name isn't what you probably think it means, it was inspired by my not D brother being his usual self and then some other not D relatives.
@Missatkins Jumpsuit wise I wouldn't recommend the M&S ghost collaboration jumpsuit it will just crease. The Hush one was very comfortable and could be dressed up or down but I just couldn't justify the price tag to myself, and it wasn't making me feel wow. The mint velvet ones have all been great but again I just wasn't feeling it with them.
@EllaPaella i returned the silver jumpsuit it just wasn't feeling it was worth £89 i might try to get it in the sale.
@Chrispackhamspoodle thanks its old i got it from Ebay although i have seen it on there a few times i thin the pattern is a bit marmite so you might be lucky and someone gets rid of one.
@Greyhairwarmheart nice dress
@Softpebbles I would say an inverted triangle. The pleated skirt is nice that you have posted, I think it would look better with a different style shirt, I've found the same no matter how much I can't get the button up masculine style shirt and skirt look to work. I think you need a blouse that is less stiff material or a jumper. Probably not high necked either unless its a blouse with a tie neck that the ties can drape down the front.
I found that CBT really helped me with stopping my internal negative conversations, I had some counselling about 8/9 years ago but you can also find advice how to do it online the concept is really simple. So if you say to yourself I am so ugly. You question that statement, so really am I so ugly, what's ugly about me? Are you sure that's Ugly. If I am that ugly then why is my DH with me surely he wouldn't be or wouldn't say I look nice.
The trick is to start catching those negative thoughts before they grow and challenging them. Also if like me you had a chaotic childhood with emotionally unavailable parents then it is much harder for you to self regulate as you literally do not have the blue print.