@Coffee4Queen, @dontcallmelen and @Stumpedasatree. thank you for vote of boots approval. I think I need to get used to the look (again).
@Stumped, your feet look perfectly in proportion in that photo. I definitely didn't look at your photo and think JESUS that woman's feet!
Re: coat dilemma, I think it's neat and nice. But if you're wavering, can you go back to first principles: what do you need it to do?
I really would rec looking at Trespass ones - not because I work for them. (I actually work for the NHS, ha ha). But because their XXS/XS/S sizes seem to work for me and two petite friends. I think the XXS is really teenage size.