Solovair monkey boots are lovely, DH has just bought a pair. Not sure they are less chunky looking than DMs though, i think higher and fitted to ankle/calf actually looks less bulky. I wear DMs but quite like the chunky look, I like barely-there sandals but prefer a chunky boot to balance out coats, otherwise I think my feet look like tiny trotters.
Interesting that people are avoiding high waists, I have a very short torso but think the highwaisted/tucked in look is flattering as it gives me a a shape, thereby avoiding the toddler dressing up in parents’ clothes look. Maybe I’m kidding myself though!
Looking good @Sooverthemill, I like the length of the jeans. I think rolled up over boots is less flattering though/makes my legs look stumper, unless they’re heels. But I hate cold ankles, winter is hard!