I feel sorry for H&M they seem to have thrown themselves headlong into a number of major lifechanging decisions from dating, early engagement, moving country (for M), big wedding into a Royal position, and a baby in less than a year without really thinking about how their day to day lives would be. Then they seem to have thrown themselves into big projects and tours shortly after the birth of Archie and they both seem burned out.
I think Harry jumped in because he was desperate to settle down and start a family - but I think that starting a family has led to his unresolved grief at losing his mother dominating his life, and leading to him lashing out. I don't think that Royal life has been exactly what Meghan expected either. I think her expectations was for a super A-list Celebrity lifestyle - with tiaras! I don't think she had really thought about how it would be to live a scrutinized life - where while you technically can afford £25,000 for an evening gown it doesn't mean that you should. I don't think she has really understood the difference between Hollywood A list and a Constitutional Monarchy. I really think that their US PR company is not helping and that both of them need to take some time of to avoid burnout and seek professional help. I would also urge them not to try and have the perfect "social media" lifestyle as well. I think that H&M may have got themselves into a bit of a bunker mentality with the press trying to keep so much "secret" but it seems that it increases the activity - it is harder with their roles to manage that Hollywood PR trick of controlling the narrative so that the press only report what you want. The pressure must be enormous.
The press has been dreadful as well - trying to stir up stories using her disordered family and (possibly personality disorder father) as well as the implicit ugly racism in many of the tabloid articles. On the other hand they do need to realise that they will get called out for hypocrisy such as preach environmentalism while flying in on a private jet - I think that this may be an issue where they are expecting "Hollywood" treatment rather than "London" reporting - A list stars rarely get called out for doing these things. Other Royals have been slated in the press. Remember that Fergie was mocked for her weight (Duchess of Pork) and freebie holidays and Andrew's "Airmiles Andy" nickname. W&K have had a few run ins with the press as well - like when a paparazzi jumped out of the bushes at baby George playing in a park - W&K were slated by many on MN for being "entitled" and "overreacting".It is not a unique situation.
I can also remember a few years ago the class criticism that Kate was subject to because her mother was former Cabin Crew ... and shock horror ... a waitress in the air. K&W were also heavily criticised for their decision to live at Anmer Hall in Norfolk for a quiet few years of family life with W working 20 hours/week as a local air ambulance pilot. I have always said, and said so at the time, that it was a sensible move to live in the middle of nowhere where they were rarely papped was a good move when George and Charlotte were little and could attend local nurseries. I think that W&K's way of dealing with the press was also a lot smarter in many ways. I know that M&H wanted to keep everything very secret around the birth - yet what they created was a media frenzy around the birth whereas W&K produced the birth certificate and did a stroll for the press outside the hospital when leaving ... and everyone left them alone. Same with the Christenings - they did a little stroll with the baby outside the church and named the godparents and cut off all of the media frenzy.