buster I am small boobed/waist, but hippy, so this dress is the complete opposite of what I usually wear - tucked in, slim tops, fuller bottoms. I think it is definitely not a “sexy” dress in that it is wafty and shapeless, which is unappealing to men because there is no defined figure in it. (I generalise here, and realise women dress for themselves, don’t want to look sexy.) Honestly, it is probably not the most flattering thing I own, but I like it, and like wearing something that is different to my usual style. Yesterday I wore a denim jumpsuit, much more flattering on my shape, and got constant comments about fixing the car. I love my DP, but fashion isn’t his specialist subject.