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Les Parisiennes des Mamansnet: See life in pink, but do not wear it!

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botemp · 06/03/2019 15:58

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Redandblue11 · 05/06/2019 08:14

Thank you for the feedback on jacket Quirky and xing ,
Sometimes I am immediately drawn towards my usual choices and is good to hear other views.

botemp · 05/06/2019 10:16

sorry was away living in perpetual fear of the sun with shoddy wi-fi aka on holiday so am attempting to catch up whilst battling the jet lag.

Flowers quirky, hope you're able to catch your breath a bit again now.

On kimonos, I saw a loose interpretation one at h&m when I was doing some mad dash panic shopping before going away. It was more in the vein of the Etro one but without colour and it has tassles and a fringe at the bottom, looked a bit high priestess as a result. Think I took a pic, will dig it out.

On all things 90s, I too am very partial to strappy shoes, this time and the last time around. Have already been wearing my 90s remnants from the back of the closet since last summer so it shouldn't be a surprise. I'd apply the same principle of not wearing them as you did in the 90s, so I'd wear them under a cropped wide leg now rather than an Audrey H 7/8 trouser or tight mini dress.

From bitter experience I would say it's not really worth spending too much on them as the thin straps wear out quicker than other shoes, they're usually on square toes which are already wide so they just become unwearable but the cheaper incarnations are less comfortable. Have you looked at By Far already Elle, reformation also recently launched a shoe line with lots of strappy 90s silhouettes but the models feet seemed to be shooting through the fronts already in the pictures so I wasn't all that impressed. I tried a few at Mango but I wasn't convinced about the comfort level despite being low heeled.

I'm less on board with the 90s florals but that's just personal bias as it's the quickest route to Frumpsville for me. In a broader sense I'm also missing that one thing that breaks the tweeness of it and brings it to current times. In the 90s they did it by wearing it with Doc Martins and people seem to be just repeating it again now. Though I suspect those are people who just never stopped wearing them like that.

I did check out the Rihanna collection when it launched to see the prices, well a day or so after. Was surprised everything was still available. Not the sticker shock I was expecting, it's about the price point of Jacquemus which is very reasonable by mid tier designer standards, as an LVMH brand I had expected it to sit higher than that, in the range of Chloé of similar. Was surprised the sizes ended at 42 though, I thought it was going to have a more expansive size range. Nearly ordered the camel fold trousers I posted previously but the size range actually was the thing that put me off, they had it on a 'plus size' model so realistically she couldn't have been bigger than a 42 but she looked at least a size bigger to my eyes.

Good to see you back Festiva, can't believe Mini is already 3 months, doesn't seem that long ago we got to meet them in London. And hurray for the Bobbies coming back in stock.

Time quality linen is a bit tough, I agree. I sort of divide them in two, the stuff that's meant to be worn a bit slouchy and just left to air dry and not get pressed to death just needs to be really heavy. Then the more classic starched linen look that is tolerated a bit of soft slouch needs a really fine weave. It's actually easiest to see if you browse a fancy men's department store where they sell Italian brands, it's almost smooth and slippery to the touch when starched, a slight shine as well.

Also delighted Lady Penelope Flo had a good outing in pink. We're not exactly living up to our thread title, are we?

Red, I'm a bit meh on the linen blazers. They look about what they are, affordable and unremarkable. Nothing offensive about them but they're not oversized and boxy enough to be that menswear inspired thing and not fitted enough to be tailored. I prefer the white over the rust which looks like a wrong size on you to my eyes. Mango usually do decent linen on the high street and are usually good at tailoring, just much sharper but I'm not sure if that's what you're looking for. H&M usually have good menswear inspired ones in their Trend collection (pink label) with heavier weight linens.

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Redandblue11 · 05/06/2019 12:37

Mango is a good idea Bo, just checked it and they have a couple of potential jackets. Tbh, I not looking specifically for linen but just for a jacket or two to wear at work over trousers/dresses when the ac is up / running to the station early in the am.
Hopefully the jet lag eases off soon and that you had a good time there Bo.
Haha, easiest route to frumpville! Well I am firmly on that as I am quite partial to florals (not any, but quite a few) Grin

banivani · 05/06/2019 14:35

I am too fat for classy menswear so I'm stuck with cheap linen, unfortunately (in more ways than one, I'm feeling very ungainly, disproportionate and ugly right now - sadly this leads to me buying chocolate instead of jogging iyswim.).

Flo, glad you had a good time at the wedding! Shame on you for standing out in the photos, after reading a number of "can I wear this to a wedding" threads I've come to realise that this is apparently a cardinal sin.

I am decidedly meh on the Rihanna collection but in general she is more art than wallpaper so I think we just don't gel. If I could see masses of lovely wallpaper I'd be more likely to enjoy the art.

Thank you Bo for helping me articulate what feels off about the 90s florals Grin - very good, I concur, that's what I meant to say. Wink I am, btw, kicking myself for throwing out my 90s dresses in previous purges, because I never thought my 23-year-old would want them now. I had some lovely ones.

Red, I'm not mad about the blazers either - if it's a colour you love and fills a hole in your wardrobe maybe then go for it, but they seem a bit ordinary otherwise. I prefer more fitted laydee jackets myself or super draped kimono things (apparently).

Speaking of kimonos - I don't like fringes or tassels or shite. I don't like any of the ones on offer atm (or if I do like one it's £££). Instead I am applying vitamin c to my arms trying to bleach the spots away.

I am a contrary person.

Redandblue11 · 05/06/2019 17:00

Bani I hear your despair re spots over body. Is that also influencing how you are seeing yourself atm, perhaps. I know that sort of thing can get you very down.
Talking from experience as someone that in younger days suffered with severe acne (roacuttane needed then), and then two episodes in my life with allergy type spots that covered my whole body which they went after months and months of trying different things, the last time they gave me the strongest possible antihistamine tablets (v strong, I could find the name of you want me just pm me), I did an elimination diet and who knows what else. I am convinced that for me it was a mix of stress and food intolerance.
I hope it is over for you soon.

Re jackets I might ponder for a bit longer until hopefully It is that warm that I do not need it anymore!

Floisme · 05/06/2019 19:05

I was wondering where you were bo. Hope you've had a good holiday. When I was a child I wanted to be either Lady Penelope or Emma Peel so it's quite funny I end up dressed like Lady P. I promise to stay away from leather catsuits though.

Here come more contradictions: I don't actually mind a rumpled linen blazer - it's the droopy arsed trousers that get to me. If it was me, I'd probably look out for a second hand blazer by someone like Joseph. However that could take a while and summer is pretty much on us so I'd look for a cheap and cheerful one to keep me going. I don't mind the M&S one and I've heard much better things about them this season but, given it would be a naughty short term buy, I'd look for as modern a shape as I could get and not worry about it lasting. So probably H&M or Zara for starters.

bani you sound so down Flowers

timeisnotaline · 06/06/2019 07:09

I’m meh about the blazers but it’s also not a style I’m any good at, I just feel unstylish in it, I think that’s just me. I do see the £50 point!

timeisnotaline · 06/06/2019 07:13

and I’m really sad not to see a picture of the suit! Karate trousers with it sound amazing!
bani do they have no idea what it is? I wonder if a diet change would help. I’ve never had to do one but my intestines were feeling very uncomfortable recently and I contemplated ibs and thought I think I would change my diet if this is my new normal. Fortunately it turned out to be gastro Grin.
I wore the jumpsuit for my son’s 4th birthday on Sunday! It does go a bit out /up at the back shoulders just as bo said the white dress did, I’d been hoping that would go away as I lost the weight but tbh It doesn’t really bother me, it happens a lot. Must be my shape.

Floisme · 06/06/2019 07:26

I'll do a pic of the suit in a few weeks - I'm just a bit conscious it might be identifying so soon after the event. Remind me if I forget.
The karates are my oldest surviving trousers - they're made from a heavy cotton canvass (I don't suppose that happens now) and have a blessed tie waist so they've seen me through 30+ years of body changes. They're cropped length and a nice slouchy fit so they look really modern at the moment.

CatherineMaitland · 06/06/2019 08:41

I love blazers, but finding ones that love me back is hard. If they go over my chest properly they're huge everywhere else and not in a fashionably oversized way; and if they fit on the waist they don't go over the chest and lose their shape slightly, and the length is always wrong and either drowns me or makes my bum look huge.

Count me in for wanting a picture of the pink suit, too, it sounds glorious. And for one of Xing's finished kitchen. :)

Sorry you are feeling bad, bani. I bet your feelings are more negative than the reality though.

I cannot do the demure small print florals that seem to be everywhere now, I can't put my finger on why, but I just look all wrong in them.

I am going to Kiev for a conference in a few weeks; I think I have most things I need but I do have a couple of gaps, mainly for a sunhat, casual long skirt, and smart trousers. Any/all ideas welcome, as always.

Floisme · 06/06/2019 08:55

Yeah the small floral prints are funny. I got the new Baukjen catalugue and it was like something out of the M&S Classic collection even down to the fabric covered buttons.

I always say if you keep things long enough they'll come back. Smile

Redandblue11 · 06/06/2019 14:52

Those things in the Baukjen site ... I am not loving them at all.

Catherine is it a work conference? How formal does it need to be?

Well, after Flo mentioned that she would try second hand, that is what I did and nipped into charity shop and found this Max Mara for £8, great condition. It is linen mix, not exactly the colour I was after but to be honest I only need it to wear in a few occasions where I know I will be in a certain conference room with A/C to max is not an overly formal environment. And looking back I think I agree with Bani about more lady like jackets. Here is a sneak peak from it being tried in charity shop.

Les Parisiennes des Mamansnet: See life in pink, but do not wear it!
Les Parisiennes des Mamansnet: See life in pink, but do not wear it!
XingMing · 06/06/2019 17:33

That's a brilliant solution, and the colour will be fairly versatile. Love how it looks buttoned.

You'll be lucky to get away with just one picture of the new kitchen... Grin. Soon now, stamps foot impatiently.

CatherineMaitland · 06/06/2019 18:29

Yep, it's a work one, but not super-formal. I'm not presenting or anything. I hope.

CatherineMaitland · 06/06/2019 18:30

I forgot to say I love the jacket - great shoulders.

banivani · 06/06/2019 20:37

Thank you for your kind words ❤️ I am feeling a bit down and ironically feeling burnt out and down is what might have triggered the rash 🙄 I have a specialist appointment in July 🙄🙄🙄🙄 but until then I’m getting no help. I’d have to chase help of course, they don’t get back to you. And since she doesn’t know what it is there’s not much to do - I’m no eejit so I get that. I think it’s mostly that I had new passport pics taken and I look hideous so I’m down in the dumps. Have now down loaded MyFitnessPal and am semi determined to lose weight. It won’t make me beautiful but it’ll be easier to find clothes that fit. Wink

Red, that’s a snazzy jacket! How do you feel in it? It strikes me as perhaps a little more laydeelike than your usual style? Colour is pink, is it? Grin

I’m bloody offended by the Baukjen dress. What the bloody hell.

Found a viscose georgette black shirt dress with long sleeves in a charity shop that I can wear as an open jacket so I’m very pleased with that, quite versatile. Fingers crossed arms look less contagious soon so I can let them out!

bo where was your holiday?

XingMing · 06/06/2019 22:52

Cheer up bani. You/we could have been stuck in the 17th century, without any of the good cheer of internet chums to grouse with and about, or modern healthcare. Come for a walk! XingDog will career around and might even catch you a squirrel, but her zest for life is in turns tiring, invigorating, pointless and sometimes smelly. Flowers

banivani · 07/06/2019 06:37

Absolutely! I could have been undergoing “cures” of bloodletting or urine baths as we speak Grin

quirkychick · 08/06/2019 14:28

Flowers bani. I hope it gets sorted soon, dd1 had awful eczema/skin problems that took quite a while to diagnose and then sort out.

I like the jacket, red, I agree with Xing, it looks great buttoned up and with the red top underneath too.

Thanks, bo, for your kind thoughts. The sleep is getting better with some medication for night sweats, which makes everything else easier to deal with Smile.

botemp · 09/06/2019 10:38

Should probably clarify that florals=Frumpsville is quite specific to me. I think because it's so highly feminine as it makes for feminine rounds and softens harder edges and I'm round and soft enough to begin with. Though I assume my polar opposites feel similarly ill at ease with the sudden feminity overload.

Catherine what sort of sun hat are you looking for, I always struggle a bit finding good ones that work in a city context and don't look beachy. I haven't seen many maxi skirts around just dresses.

Bani have you got yourself a cleansing oil for the body yet? The avene xeracalm one is good for atopic skin.

Holiday was to the Carribbean island I spend a fair chunk of my childhood and hadn't been back since which is always a surreal experience.

My passport photo is horrendous too, I think it's mandatory these days.

Cos sale started this morning, well it's a pre access thing, hoping link will work for others:

www.cosstores.com/en_eur/women/sale.html

I ended up ordering a few things, navy woollen dress (from the winter collection I assume) with an interesting neckline. Another silk dress with white sleeves, I vaguely remember trying it on and I think I didn't buy it due to price but I can't remember it that accurately so I'll see when it gets here. I don't remember it looking quite so New England puritan on me though.

Also ordered some nineties strappy heels, I tried on the flat versions in store but they were too flat to be comfortable for me. I got them in black and taupe, usually not a fan of white shoes but potentially I could like taupe? At least these won't stretch out needlessly as there's already a bit of stretch in them.

Les Parisiennes des Mamansnet: See life in pink, but do not wear it!
Les Parisiennes des Mamansnet: See life in pink, but do not wear it!
Les Parisiennes des Mamansnet: See life in pink, but do not wear it!
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Redandblue11 · 09/06/2019 10:42

So, how is everyone dealing with this not very warm summer -at least in Uk-? What are you all wearing?
Today sunday is the only day with sunny rays, tomorrow we go back to trench coat territory... one thing I would say, that Hobbs trench coat that I got for my birthday is getting all the possible wear and has been one of the best buys (possibly the best) this year.
Today is a low key day with park and children, but I will be with a friend who has that natural ability to throw anything and look great, she always reminds me of the French Riviera (which is one of my favourite places on earth -my favourite list places is a bit long tough-). So I will try and wear something that looks effortless, can I stay certain that the weather will behave?

I like the sound of that shirt dress worn like an open jacket Bani, my mentioned friend will wear stuff like that and look great.
Perhaps I am more ladee like than I get to show Bani? I do not know, I feel confident in that jacket, must be because it fits better and I tried it with one of the work dresses that I wanted out of my closet and looks very good.

Redandblue11 · 09/06/2019 10:48

Cross post with Bo
Nice to read about your orders Bo, please feedback/photos when they arrive. Although I would love to wear stuff like that, I do not think it would suit me at all.
Nobody wants to see my driving card photo. Nobody. Trust me.

CatherineMaitland · 09/06/2019 11:20

Red - I'm sitting inside wrapped in blankets and moaning at my husband for chasing away the nice weather by complaining that it was too hot last week. Ha.

Outside, I've swapped my heavy scarves for light ones and my big winter coat for a light waterproof - found a nice one from Nautica on TK Maxx last autumn. I still have my hiking waterproof from, er, 1996, which still fits, but isn't very smart - the new one is more towny but would still stand an hour or two in the rain walking up a hill.

bo - I've found this hat - www.debenhams.com/webapp/wcs/stores/servlet/prod_10701_10001_33678+11207619_-1 - it's not likely to last long, but it looks good.

I really liked this one - www.debenhams.com/webapp/wcs/stores/servlet/prod_10701_10001_025010421360_-1 - but the brim was just too big for me, or perhaps not big enough, in that the edge lined up with my shoulders and made me look like a giant rectangle.

I found a few long skirts to try so they are all arriving next week.

I really like the shape of the first Cos dress.

CatherineMaitland · 09/06/2019 11:22

You would think with all the technology available, and with how bloody expensive passport photos are these days, the machines could produce a decent photo. :-(

banivani · 09/06/2019 15:58

Thank you all for the sympathy. Dr has decided based on tests that my thyroid needs some regulating so have medicine for that now. We’ll see if that helps with the moods! Glad you’re sleeping better quirky. bo, I have not bought a cleansing oil but something mild from LRP toleriane instead and am mostly washing with water I’d say. Scraping off layers of cream and then plastering more on. 😉

Had a look in the Cos sale but they are refusing to put my coat on sale (belted wool coat) so I’ll hold. There’s a green wool/silk scarf I adore though. Clothes - perhaps I should avoid shopping and see if I manage to lose weight first. Anyway very hard to buy from Cos online it all looks a bit odd to me. I love that wool Cos dress though Bo, I noticed that neckline before, it’s very nice. Hope it fits!

I am rewatching Buffy atm so I am over and against all 90s fashion. 😉☝️

Laydee Red, is this your moniker henceforth? Grin If you get tired of the nipped waist look I saw something boxy in H&M today in natural coloured linen. Quite a thick fabric. Can’t spot it online so might be misremembering it though.

No one takes a worse photo than me. In my youth, when I was frankly much prettier than I am now, I once had to get an emergency passport from the embassy when abroad. Took a panicked photo in a machine in the metro. The official at the embassy flinched - just a little, but she did - when she saw it. 😂 this time I flinched when I saw the photo in the machine at the passport office. Jesus that’s terrible I said. The official said, cool as ice, “it’s fit for purpose”. Feck off, so that’s my bar these days “fit for purpose”! They should provide stylists Catherine!

Shops are devoid of thin long sleeved shirt dresses. Am scouring the second hand markets.