soy -please don't feel you have offended me!!! I totally agree with you - and I'd much rather have a critical eye, rather than get told things look great, when really they don't work on me. Thats what DH is for. I kind of knew it didn't suit me, and think as never says, I would feel conscious of my tummy (and legs, if I ruche it up a bit more!). And the other one i have is longer and I think a bit more flattering on the tummy (more drapey) - but i don't wear it cos it feels a bit "bottom-y"
which isn't the impression I want to give at work.... I can see how they are really good at work, but just not for me, I think.
I tried getting other photos of the other one, but realised when I did that that wasn't great from other angles either! So I think they are both going back. Which is fine, as I'm hardly short on clothes...
On the plus side, I picked up the sainsbury's velvet puffa, which is lovely. I thought it was on the large size, and when I looked at the label they had sent an 18 rather than a 14 (right packaging and hanger etc, but both labels inside are 18). They don't seem to do exchanges annoyingly, and I got it with 25% off which has now finished. I may have a chat to customer services... Though in practice, it doesn't look enormous (well, it does, but it is supposed to) so I may just keep the bigger size.
I'll post photos in the next post...sorry, the lighting is awful as its just gone black outside and i think its about to p* down...