@Ipromiseiwontbenaughty
Yes I think in Meghan’s shoes I would find the deference wierd.
Everyone naturally defers to William. However Meghan is an American and their society is based on meritocracy. (In theory).
I guess she is trying to maintain some privacy for the baby. As Harry is now way down the pecking order, they have that opportunity.
I’ve always thought that Kate’s family are like courtiers of old. They have never uttered a word about the RF and their behaviour is impeccable. Kate is a product of that upbringing and is 100% supportive of William and careful not to eclipse him.
To be fair the Harry, is is so proud of Meghan, he is happy to let her shine. I remember his expression when she launched her cookbook.
Harry is used to bring no.2 and Meghan is the star; so that dynamic works for them.