Ok thanks all..I'm going to keep I think 
I can't afford it really and my thinking was either keep the wide top when that arrives or the dress, but actually sod it!
Thanks for all your comments..I love this board because everyone is so honest and it REALLY helps when you are just unsure as to whether something really works or not. Relying on my 80 year old mother can be a bit hit and miss too, although she is quite stylish for her age (and loves clothes too!).
@missfliss I thought about getting those rainbow climbers too, I think they are so pretty. Trouble is my pierced ear holes have closed up as I haven't worn earring for so long! They look lovely on you.