We had a bit of a Cetaphil discussion when Caroline Hirons tore it to pieces recently. Do I think it's the best cleanser in the world, nope, but it's not the worst either (it has the whole non-foaming low pH thing going for it). As mentioned above there's plenty of reasons to avoid parabens (especially for those of us with endocrine issues) but the ones deemed safe by the EU do have a long safety track record and are often a preferred choice to the alternatives available at that price level. SLS I'm not a fan but if you have resilient skin and never suffered any ill affects from it I might still dissuade you from using Cetaphil (LRP Toleriane Dermo Cleanser is a good alternative) but won't condemn it as it's hardly going to burn your skin off. However, considering how sensitive your cheeks are wiltingfast I think exposing them to SLS and thus further sensitising them is probably not in your best interest further down the line so I'd definitely be swapping it for something gentler.
I've used a sample of that smart moisturiser from Clinique and was left utterly unimpressed but I don't get on with most of Clinique and tend to think French Pharmacy brands cover that market better than they do at lower prices (they just tend to be rather elusive and French about it).
Pupsie, currently I have Komeyu Rice Bran Oil (from Japan, I use it on my hair too), MV Organic 9 oil cleansing tonic (confusing name but it's a treatment oil that can also be used for oil cleansing if you like to piss money down the drain), MV Organic Rose Plus Booster (great for sensitive hormonal skins, I'm not all that convinced on the hydrating claims but it is good as a moisturiser) and the MV Organic Jojoba Oil (my emergency standby, can do my entire routine with this apart from SPF). Also have a teeny bit of Kiehl's Midnight Recovery Concentrate left, which is nice too but find kind of pricey for what it is and isn't strictly a pure oil blend. Despite my love of oils I try not to have too many at once as I fear they go rancid.
Dulcimena the AB field is definitely a bit overwhelming, and advanced reading of INCI is required. For example the night cream version of that Naruko product contains Methylisothiazolinone which is voluntarily restricted in Europe due to its irritating potential so probably best avoided.
In terms of lipids, the BR weren't wrong to steer you in that direction but I wouldn't be buying what they're selling either. They are the thing to turn towards when you are lacking in oils. Problem is that it means seeking out oils high in linoleic acid which tend to go rancid quickly so are oft avoided by the cosmetic industry in favour of mineral oil. So pure oils make more sense than seeking out products containing them. Sunflower oil is good, as is Olive oil, Avocado (and an overripe one on your face and some in your diet probably wouldn't be a terrible idea either), Squalane, and Shea Butter. Lanolin is worth considering but usually is made with mineral oil these days. For most these are highly congestive in their pure form but if your skin is indeed that dry it might very well be exactly what you need.
I also think Kelp Extract (do NOT buy the Whamisa kelp sheetmask, it is literally a piece of seaweed 
) would be beneficial to you. Again it's a ferment so highly packed with nutrients but especially good for sensitivities working as a catalyst for helping restore compromised barriers boosting moisture.