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Creme de la Crepe

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MrsSchadenfreude · 22/08/2015 10:52

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motherinferior · 13/09/2015 18:56

I enjoyed BB in a crepey sort of way. DD1 recognised him from Pride. I am such a cliche Smile. She's never actually agreed to go on a demo with me before - it's a rather lovely thing, how she's much more aware of the world around her - and enjoyed the whole 'everyone together' vibe though was mortified when we met her Y8 maths teacher WinkGrin.

motherinferior · 13/09/2015 18:57

After a minor panic I have found the gin lurking in our freezer.

Lalsy · 13/09/2015 19:04

That is really mortifying, MI.Grin. I met dd's art teacher in TX Maxx knickers dept once.

I love a bit of BB myself, just think the message from yesterday to the govt should have been multi-faith. Politics is certainly more interesting though - we are even having dinner conversations Grin.

BTM, that sounds great.

Stropps, how is dd getting on (if you want to say/aren't fed up with being asked)?

Cremo · 13/09/2015 19:33

Och. Lalsy you'll miss dd, still not as weep-inducing as last year, I hope. My DD never really appeared this summer except for 1ghastly week in June and 2 much better days in August. however, she has got a job, is settled and term starts on Thursday for her. Also she has got an audition for the Chapel Choir. I really am delighted by this and have everything crossed for her. I'm just so pleased that her head is a good enough place to be able to go back to music.
MI well done on writing so diligently on a Sunday, and that's wonderful that you had a magic day with dd, JCorby or nay.

Stropperella · 13/09/2015 19:35

Ha, try living in a small town. Everyone knows everyone and you meet teachers all over the place. In fact, I was always meeting my old students all over the shop. I don't mind that, but I do always slightly cringe when I bump into the nurse who put a stitch in my cervix (or somewhere round there) after I had ds. Grin

Lalsy, I am trying to roll with the (currently not literal) punches with dd. She had a very up and down week last week, with a lot to take on board, both at school and medically, but she actually seemed quite cheery and sensible by Friday. She is finding the timetable with just 3 A2 subjects much easier to deal with and so far (touch wood) is actually enjoying French. She is also having driving lessons. And is grudgingly exchanging a few words now and then with dh. She is still dejected about having had to drop chemistry because it limits her choice of university courses, but she will just have to come to terms with that and learn that particular lesson. (i.e. make poor choices and stuff up more or less on purpose and you may well find out that there are unavoidable consequences) Early days and all, but last week could have gone a lot worse.

I have always found Billy Bragg intensely irritating and I find him a lot more irritating now that he lives in the same constituency - one of the Toryest Tory shires - and is always huffing and puffing telling us how to vote. He makes me come over all reactionary; I can't help myself.

Stropperella · 13/09/2015 19:36

Oops, yes, meant to say: many congrats, MI!

hattymattie · 13/09/2015 19:43

Cremo - that's such great news about DD - hopefully this is the turning point. She'll meet a totally different bunch of people at choir, not to mention getting the benefits of spiritually uplifting musicSmile.

DD1 has finally arrived back and seems to have a male lined up to take her out for a curry.

We, meanwhile are going to have a bonding session with our other teenagers (well DD2) watching The Walking Dead Hmm.

bigTillyMint · 13/09/2015 19:44

Cremo, Lalsy, Addle and anyone else with a departing-to-uni-DC, I got a lump today as two of my friends were talking about dropping their DC (even though one has just been on a gap year and the other is DC2) - it's the next big step in life.

Glad that things are OKish with your DD, Stropps - have you had a chat with her about the 26th yet?

Lalsy · 13/09/2015 20:01

The Walking Dead is very bonding Grin.

Hey, Stropps, that sounds loads better. Good for dd - and for you, you hand-sitting wise young thing. dd found yr 13 a whole load less stressful - there was time to sort niggles out before they became problems which really helps with anxiety I think. [Would it be ridiculous for her to think about taking a year off and doing chemistry and working (if that would work university-wise)?].

And Crem, what top news too. Clutch away - and I hope she has a good term.

Rosebag · 13/09/2015 20:04

Just racing in to say Annoying Director has given the green light for the Play Reading on the evening of 20th. Would the Crepeys who know they can definitely come please PM me their email address for info and confirmation. I just need to know if you're coming and the I'll email out the details.

Will catch up later. Eeeek!

herbaceous · 13/09/2015 20:24

Had lovely Sunday lunch, and consequent boozy afternoon, with pals. They are NCT pals from the first-born, so DS and their DS get on famously, and they also have a 21-month-old much-longed-for daughter, who is utterly gorgeous. At the stage of grabbing your hand and pulling you to her object of interest, which in today's case was some flowers in the garden.

All lovely, but this does mean I've got to complete my job application in a state of inebriation. I have a cup of tea, but fear it won't be enough. Oh well - high-pressure horseshit seems to work for many people...

Blackduck · 13/09/2015 21:10

Cremo must catch up on fil/mil thing too...
Dp and I are 11 days apart so no toy boy here...

MI congrats on the draft - I will read I promise.

Doing lots of thinking here about ways forward and work/life balances..

Auriga · 13/09/2015 23:20

Lalsy, don't worry. The march was all about refugees and was n't dominated by JC, BB or anyone else. I was there for hours without managing to find out that JC had been elected (admit didn't try very hard) and, like thousands of others, didn't hear one word of the speeches or see who was making them. Sorry if the media gave a different impression.

Have spoken to DBIL. Got a (clearly well-rehearsed) speech about how the marriage is over, nothing left etc etc. Told him he must tell DSis. She 's v low but I suspect can tell from his unrelenting PA fury that this is the way things are heading. He pretends to be putting it off for the sake of their younger son. Son is no fool and has put 2+2 together.

It's shit.

Stropperella · 14/09/2015 07:07

Auriga, I am very sorry to hear that. Is this the BiL who asked you for money? Has the split been on the cards for some time or is it all a recent development?

addle · 14/09/2015 07:20

Hello all -

BTM - you might have run into my DD on your w/e!

Rose - I'd like to come please. Will pm you.

bigTillyMint · 14/09/2015 07:52

Auriga, sorry to hear you have yet more family crises.

Addle, I was wondering! There were barely any students about as the Freshers start next weekend and the one after apparently (hence how we could book student accommodation) Wish it was me starting there again!

Isn't working full-time relentless? I am feeling a bit Envy this morning of my friends who work part-time.

Lalsy · 14/09/2015 07:54

Auriga, that's so hard for those caught in the middle. I am sorry.

motherinferior · 14/09/2015 08:07

Oh Auriga, how grim.

Auriga · 14/09/2015 08:13

He's traumatised by her behaviour when she was mentally ill. He's a man-child, she carried him for more than 20 years. When she became ill & he needed to step up he couldn't do it. We all tried to support him. Yes, I gave them money, so did my mother. But I now think DSis can't recover with him there.

He rants about the abuse he endured when she was ill. But he was the one who prevented her getting help for four months, lying to doctors about how everything was fine Angry

Rosebag · 14/09/2015 09:12

Auriga what a difficult and sad situation for you all Flowers

Cremo Stropps quiet optimism about respective DD's. Good to hear Smile

Hooray for the marchers!!! glad it went well. And also that Tilly had a grand weekend with ex Uni friends! I am suspicious of JC I'm afraid.

Embarrassing meet ups with DC's teachers? I see you the knickers incident lalsy and raise you having to teach DD's PE teacher??and you all know the type of classes I run Grin Grin Blush

Now laydeez who want to come to the play reading. Likely I will have a waiting list for the audience. So can I check back with GGG and MrsS if you still want to come ? If so please PM me your emails asap. Addle I shall have to give them first refusal and will then let everyone know. Molly I have your PM thanks!

Blackduck · 14/09/2015 09:17

Auriga, so sorry to hear about family woes.

BTM sounds (and looks) like a fab weekend!

Lots of thinking here.

Blackduck · 14/09/2015 09:18

Oh MrsS - let us know if you hear anything this morning!

herbaceous · 14/09/2015 10:26

Fingers crossed, Mrs S.

Sounds a horrible sitch, Auriga. And it's so very churning when this kind of thing is in the family.

I am writing this day off. After extensive drinking yesterday (and Saturday, and Friday), I spent th. I that on the lav, all hot, then cold, feeling faint, etc, and am now wrung out. I may retire to bed.

BeachysFlipFlops · 14/09/2015 12:08

Good weather for a pyjama day, Herbs...

Auriga, that's so tough. Is he confiding in you anything that your dsis doesn't know? It's tough being in the middle of a deteriorating situation.

I'm not enjoying work today, just saying....

Auriga · 14/09/2015 12:32

Well she knows now, he told her last night. And added, for good measure, that he's seeing someone else

Of course he is.

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