What does one wear to a swingers club?

[SnowNotSoWhite]

Apart from not a lot
Have no intention of getting totally bare assed in public so any ideas on nice lingerie and clothes that would, be, ahem, accommodating?

Destiny if you started a thread, I would be following with interest.

What's off the beaten track? I've never heard of it. Does anyone read it...?

I usually wear a nice dress or causal outfit, and take a change of outfit with me for when I get there. Usually a babydoll/basque with stockings.

It's not sleazy and people don't walk around naked. It's more a social environment with the choice to go to a bedroom if you wish. I've been so many times and nothing has happened and other times I've been it's been a mass orgy

I'm also happy to answer any questions nosy people have

Destinysdaughter

OTBT is no good. Try Watch With Mumsnet or Days Out

Or maybe ParentPort?

If you do start one destiny point is in the right direction!

No, it has to go in Education.
Further or Higher.

Or in Etiquette.
Or Geeky stuff?

So what would your questions be then..?

This is what I would wear...

Well in all honesty I want to know why?

I can't imagine finding that number of people attractive. I am intrigued by the etiquette of one guy after another. What if there is one you don't like. It must be like not being picked for hockey.

And the buffets sound so deliciously 70s.

Destiny I think that for women who are into casual sex (for want of a better expression) swingers clubs are a safe place to indulge.
It's bound to be an ego boost because the men, as you said, tend to be grateful (since it's much harder for men to get causal sex) and so any women who go will feel very in demand

It's basically a place where unattractive, socially awkward people go to fuck other ugly, socially awkward people?

Cute.

How would that be an ego boost??

There was some place in London that called itself orgies and you had to be very young and good looking to attend. Sunday Times did a feature on it.

Have you been Kelly?

I can't imagine finding that number of people attractive
I don't think many women do, which is why (as with dogging) you tend to get one woman surrounded by a pack of men

No it isn't a place where awkward socially I attractive people go to fuck each other! That's what I mean about the misconceptions that exist. There are literally all sorts of people that go. Just like your neighbours, your colleagues, people in the pub or on the tube...

Destiny, on your thread, can we ban people who insult others based on their sexual preferences?

What about MN Book Swap Club? Sort of the same thing.

But that would turn me off. I only like being fancied by people I fancy.

Kelly, when you consider how easy it is for most women to find a man who will agree to fuck her then of course it isn't an ego boost.

But I imagine in the heat of the moment when you have the attention of several men it might feel like one?

Some men like to watch their partner having sex with lots of guys and some women enjoy that too. Open your minds ladies..!!