I like the dress, Beachy; I think the monochrome stops it being too busy.
Re: secondary schools - I also have a Y6, but she will be going to the same school as DS and DD1; no discussion needed. I just have to remember to actually put the application in.
Gardening leave
you lucky person, MrsS. Having said that, work for me is humming along nicely at the moment, and today I actually plucked up the courage to ask my boss for a payrise. I have been there for 6 years, and have had only the standard across-the-board inflation-linked annual rise, nothing to reflect the fact that my role and responsibilities have expanded considerably since I was first hired as a "part-time mum who could do a bit of data entry". He took my request on board, so we shall see......it is worth a try, at least.