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Crepe Expectations

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Cremolafoam · 03/08/2013 07:32

Will this do?Smile

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bigTillyMint · 30/08/2013 08:39

Good luck Herbs. Are you aiming for this September or taking a longer-term view?

And good luck MrsS tooSmile

herbaceous · 30/08/2013 09:27

Well, in case I don't get anywhere playing the system he'll start at his allocated school (MG) next Thursday, as planned. Meanwhile I'll start the ball rolling with the medical thing. If it comes off, and he gets offered a place at our preferred schools, marvellous. If it doesn't, at least he'll be settled at MG. If it doesn't come off, and MG proves to be shit, we'll have to think again.

The thing is, when I went to the pre-application open days for the preferred schools, and asked them about his eye, that he might need attention during the day, etc, they both said they had procedures in place for that sort of thing - children who need their inhalers, diabetics, etc. As I assumed that a) we'd get into one of these two schools, and b) having a 'procedure' was standard practice, I didn't claim the 'special medical need' card.

However, when I went to the starters day at MG, and asked what they'd do, the deputy head said 'no idea, ask the teacher', and the teacher said 'no idea, ask the deputy head'. When I reminded the teacher at the brief meeting with her, she said she was sure the TA could sort it out. But nothing since. Don't know when/where/how/if this is going to take place.

Admissions woman at the council seemed to think I had a fair case for medical grounds, and for appeal. I didn't realise you could still appeal, but apparently, unadvertised, you can!

motherinferior · 30/08/2013 09:31

That is totally pants, Herbs. Do you want me to talk to RNIB about it too?

In other, amusing, news I attempted to dye my eyebrows. I think my mistake was using a brush that still had a bit of eyebrow powder on it. They look...well, remember Wilbur saying 'my nounou looks like Hitler'?

OTOH was very easy. I used...well, actually you'll have to guess, but it's a product that is quite well-known to be used for this purpose though not designed for it....

Blackduck · 30/08/2013 09:41

Good luck MrsS. Does the London flat feel like home MrsS? Our house was dp's choice - not mine. Maybe when some more work has been done on it I'll feel different!

Herbs go for it - I think you will get your preferred school!

bigTillyMint · 30/08/2013 09:53

Herbs, go for it - it does sound like MG is a little disorganised, to say the least. Have you talked to Parent Partnership - they may be helpful too?

I am having an eyebrow crisis - mine are very blonde and I feel silly if they are made to look a bit darker, but I am wondering if it is worth doing anything as they are hidden under my fringeConfused

herbaceous · 30/08/2013 09:55

I just wish I'd started the process earlier. If it turns out that MG can easily deal with his eye, I'd have no real case...

hattymattie · 30/08/2013 09:58

Good news that you can appeal Herbs. Just goes to show it's Worth keeping the pressure up.

Snort - MI. My S-in -law did this and looked very strange - scouse brows was not the word. I'd love Downton Abbey type sophisticated groomed brows but I think I may just leave well alone. Sis-in-law had to grow her fringe really long until the dye faded.

motherinferior · 30/08/2013 10:03

BTM, you can use a light version of The Product In Question (clue: it would suit Herbs' FB pic). Mine was supposed to be mid-brown.

Hattie, I have a pixie cut Grin

herbaceous · 30/08/2013 10:20

Did you stick on two ginger moustaches?

herbaceous · 30/08/2013 10:25

Actually, MI, talking to the RNIB could add grist to my mill. There are three aspects to talk up to 'the authorities': the need for someone to be able to take out his shell, and possibly put it back in; to be extra careful about his good eye (sand play, etc), and to account for the fact he has no peripheral vision to his right hand side...

motherinferior · 30/08/2013 10:29

On the right track, Herbs...

I'd start with the helpline, 0303 123 9999 - but also a friend of mine edits the journal there for teaching professionals (I write for the one that's for OTs and rehab workers and so on), so I'll contact her now. Do I have your email to copy you in?

herbaceous · 30/08/2013 10:34

I've PMed you!

bigTillyMint · 30/08/2013 11:34

Sounds like there's plenty to go on, Herbs - fingers crossed!

Stropperella · 30/08/2013 12:01

Herbs, my ds's bestie changed schools in the first term of reception for v. similar reasons. The "authorities" didn't put up any kind of fight once the bad eye card was played, AFAIR. Hope it's the same in your case.

Blackduck · 30/08/2013 13:22

Fingers crossed Herbs - think you have a strong case.

addle · 30/08/2013 14:52

Hello all,

Yes to September 20th - please add me to list! Should I do anything?

Good luck Herbs. Good luck Mrs S.

Cremolafoam · 30/08/2013 15:12

Yay Addle!

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bigTillyMint · 30/08/2013 16:10

Great, Addle! Is your DS looking forward to going back to school?!

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Wilburrrrr where are you?

beachyhead · 30/08/2013 16:35

Might need a more spacious restaurant, excellent news..... Table for 12 please Smile

Well we signed into college yesterday for A levels, quick change of subjects, but generally she is so excited to be going. New start etc...
She has has homework to do before they get there.

Herbs, I think you have a very good chance of getting a school move. I would just state that you haven't been given a coherent plan by the school on how they will manage the situation.

It's my birthday today Cake....so far I've taken one child for a hair cut, walked the dogs, cooked dinner and picked another child up from a club... What birthday, I say? Curiously deflated.....

Blackduck · 30/08/2013 16:41

Ooh Happy Birthday Beachy!!
The dog is going dolally with all the banging and stuff - keeps trying to hide in the corner. I might suggest dp walks him....

We are, I think, on the home straight.....but I now have a wet carpet Grrr... Leaking rad...

bigTillyMint · 30/08/2013 16:48

Happy Happy Birthday Beachy! CakeWineFlowers Got anything special lined up for tonight? It's mine next Tues, but as I will be back at work, I am going to have a birthday outing on Monday insteadSmile My only wish is that the DC can not bicker for the outingHmm

And great news for your DD - hope she enjoys it.

Surely the Waterloo Bar and Kitchen should be able to do 12? Shall I try reserving now? Or do we want to go elsewhere?

herbaceous · 30/08/2013 16:50

We need somewhere where we can mingle! Why isn't there a 'canapes' style restaurant, where you can stand about being fed delicious morsels while chatting?

If we do get a table for 12, maybe we can do 'inter-course' shuffling to ensure we all talk to everybody. I always come away thinking 'but I never talked to '.

bigTillyMint · 30/08/2013 16:53

Yes, Herbs, totally agree - mingling would be fab, or shufflingGrin
Any ideas for a mingling venue, or shall we shuffle at the WB&K?!

CointreauVersial · 30/08/2013 17:51

Shuffling is good. Definitely book somewhere, though.

MI, I'm boggling at the thought of your eyebrows looking like Wilbur's nou-nou. Grin

Happy birthday, Beachy!

Herbs, your school does sound disorganised and frankly clueless. Hopefully all will fall into place once you get there, but in my experience, things like this can often be an indicator of how the school operates as a whole. I would definitely be setting the wheels in motion.

Blackduck · 30/08/2013 17:52

Agree- long thin table doesn't work too well. Mingling kinda place would be good :)
Boiler in and working - yeah!!

Off to dinner tonight with dp and no ds - double yeah!!

MrsS how did interview go?

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