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Crepe Expectations

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Cremolafoam · 03/08/2013 07:32

Will this do?Smile

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rubyrubyruby · 27/08/2013 23:48

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CointreauVersial · 27/08/2013 23:50

Yay!

I was just wondering about you.

Thanks Thanks Well done.

In fact Wine Wine !

(when's the housewarming?Wink )

bigTillyMint · 28/08/2013 07:56

FlowersCakeWine - Congratulations ruby!

hattymattie · 28/08/2013 08:02

Happy New House Ruby. You must be exhausted. I'm tired just thinking about the hoovering and of course the Rentree. I have 5 poplar trees by the way and it did cost about 2K to get them topped - it's about once every 4/5 years we do this.

DD's definitely need to go back to school - the are being Moody and unhelpful and ganging up on me. Then telling me when I remonstrate with them that it's me who's Moody. I think our lives need to rediscover routine.

By the way - my text keeps adding random capitals on words - I would just like to say that this is not me - see Moody!

motherinferior · 28/08/2013 09:10

Rooobeeee!!! hurrah!!!!

Hattie, my DDs and yours. Oh yes.

Blackduck · 28/08/2013 09:18

We had four large trees on the boundary of the old house - I used to hire the local council park keepers (cash in hand....), were qualified, but keep the costs down (I know naughty)

Congrats Ruby, that was us a year ago - but no where near as nice house!!

Today's torture delight is the new Percy Jackson film....
And the boiler man is back ;)

QueenQueenie · 28/08/2013 09:40

Oh well done Ruby. Moving is soooo exhausting but very exciting!
Flowers Wine Brew Brew Wine Flowers

hattymattie · 28/08/2013 10:16

BD - suffered Percy Jackson yesterday. Courage.

Stropperella · 28/08/2013 10:42

I rather enjoyed Percy Jackson Blush . But then I have also read and enjoyed all the books. Grin Harry Potter just bores me, but I rate PJ. However, this is probably because I am somewhat emotionally stunted, not v bright and tend to take everything far too literally. Many highly-rated films for "grown-ups" leave me either cold in a "Eh, what??" kind of way or gibbering with fear.

Have not seen Ruby's house, but I gather it must be a splendid mansion. Grin Congrats on the new house, Ruby, and may you enjoy many happy years in it.

I had most of the giant trees in our garden nixed over the first few years I lived here. They were far too close to the house and had been disgruntling the neighbours for many years before I lived here. Getting rid of the trees therefore made everyone happy. The remaining ones are overgrown beeches in the front hedge that were eventually cut down by 2 thirds and just need a major haircut every couple of years, which our kindly ts does for about £100, but I note that we have a holly bush that appears to have slyly turned into an enormous tree whilst I wasn't paying attention and this will add to next year's bill. I also have about 250 feet of 7ft high hedge, which is a blardy lot of work, but up until now I have done this all myself. Dh is not an outdoor person and views the garden as an inconvenient space between the house and the garage to be avoided as much as possible. My exh was a garden/outdoor person (as am I), hence me having the garden in the first place. I have often wondered about moving - for various reasons, not just the garden - but we can't afford to. Unless we moved to somewhere v. far away from where we are now.

Cremolafoam · 28/08/2013 12:18

Ruby congratulations!
So delighted for you. I hope the new house is the start of a wonderful new chapter !
ThanksWine

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Stropperella · 28/08/2013 12:23

Sorry about the whiny edge to that post. I'm not in a good place at the moment and haven't been for a few months, which is why I've been a bit quiet on here over the summer. I can't see a way forward to getting a main-breadwinner income and everything is going to go tits-up for us if I don't. We can pretend that we are ok on a day-to-day basis at the moment, but actually the outlook is pretty dire really. Dh has his head firmly stuck in the sand, as usual. It's down to me to make decisions and do stuff to sort this out and I don't know how. Anyway, on a "get real and back to basics" campaign for starters. Ho hum.

QueenQueenie · 28/08/2013 12:28

Aww Stropps. Thought you'd been a tad quiet. That all sounds hard and a big burden. What is it you do? What does dh do?

hattymattie · 28/08/2013 13:01

Stropp's - fingers crossed that something comes through for you or that DH sees the light.

PS. Enjoyed the last PJ film - just not the new one.

bigTillyMint · 28/08/2013 13:10

Oh Stropps {{{}}} My BF is in a similar position. It's very stressful, in addition to all the awful teenager stuff.

I haven't really properly watched a PJ film although my little lovelies were gripped to one for their last day of term treat, so it get my gold star for that!

Blackduck · 28/08/2013 13:22

Oh Stropps so sorry up hear - thought you had been a bit quiet but was rather hoping it was because you were having a fab summer and didn't need to be on here. Anything we can do?

PJ was okay - not as good as the first one, but having been the one to do all children's films with ds I am kind of immune.., Grin

Stropperella · 28/08/2013 13:24

Thank you QQ. We are both freelance translators. In a nutshell, if I'm to make enough money to survive, I need to either develop a specialist niche, e.g. medical or legal, in order to get some decent clients or do something else entirely. The logistics involved in both are - as far as I can see - tricky, especially living where I do and being the main carer etc.

Stropperella · 28/08/2013 13:30

X-posts! Thanks to all. I wish I wasn't still having to take the meds for anxiety and depression as this a) makes me need more sleep and be slower than I would be otherwise and b) makes me feel like a crazy person and a second-class citizen, which does the old self-confidence no good at all. GP is of the opinion that I'd be unwise to come off them, but I'm not sure he knows what he's talking about.

Stropperella · 28/08/2013 13:40

PS: dh is 65. Yes, obvs I thought through marrying an old bloke, but I had no idea I was going to get this stupid anxiety thing and lose the ability to work and half my clients for a while after having ds. Also, for the benefit of any lurkers (ahem), I should like to point out that I am well aware that I have actually been very lucky in many ways, what with my nice garden an' all.

QueenQueenie · 28/08/2013 13:53

Well in this age of everyone having to expect to work until they are 506 your dh is pretty much a spring chicken!
Could he be the one (in the short term at least) to find the "niche" work if that's what's needed to improve finances?
Or else he may have to step up and take on more of the child rearing / domestic duties to enable you to do so without stretching yourself to the limit...
Much sympathy. Have a hug and a Brew / Wine

bigTillyMint · 28/08/2013 13:54

You are definitely NOT a crazy person or a second-class citizen!
You wouldn't berate yourself if you had to take meds for say a heart condition, so don't beat yourself up about it. And perhaps ask for a second opinion on the way forward?

bigTillyMint · 28/08/2013 13:54

Yes, agree with QQ!

QueenQueenie · 28/08/2013 13:55

On a more s and b note...
Have bought 2 sets of new underwear. Very satisfying and much cheaper than buying the dress I really fancy but shouldn't.

Blackduck · 28/08/2013 13:56

Stropps {{ }}
I worry bout the fact I have little or no pension and dp and I will live in penury when/if we retire. I have mde some seriously rubbish decisions in my life (and yes, for the lurkers, I too, with my window seat, am lucky)

You are coming to the meet up aren't you??

QueenQueenie · 28/08/2013 13:57

Yes Stropps. You MUST come to the meet up. We will brainstorm your options between drinking to drown our sorrows!

bigTillyMint · 28/08/2013 13:58

Yes Stropps, we all want to see you!

I wish I had a window seat and a big garden (with a big gardenerWink), but alas, no hope of that unless we move out of London.

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