MM your hosts sound awful, I would refuse point blank to go, you are much more accomodating of your DPs wishes than I am of mine. Hopefully dd will be oblivious to it all and just have fun.
cakey what brill suggestions, I am often envious of your quick-wittedness 
HF it's freezing here too, we had and amazing snow storm last night, lots of thunder and lightening and what sounded like golf-ball sized hailstones, I was afraid they were going to come through the sky-light. Got up to get water and was greeted by a snowy back garden. Dc so excited this morning, I am thinking of the ruins of my meticulously planned weekend, as everything will now grind to a halt. The Irish cannot cope with snow, you can bet your life the schools will be closed next week and the supermarket shelves denuded of food 
Wearing my M&S kids thermal tights (highly recommended to those under 5'4"
), ancient Uggs, and about 20 misc layers. The other day I found a Landsend Stadium Squall that I bought in the sale for snowy days, not sure I can do it though, it's pretty hideous and for some reason I bought it in red, so I will bear a strong resemblance to Santa Claus, not a great look really.
Rufus dying to hear about the haircut 
Carciofi Dc watching recording of last nights Late Late toy show, bring back any memories for you? 