Wisely and avidly planning our Christmas lists..

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Come join me!
Not so inspired but I do so hate being threadless.

Poor you zembo. As I said you sound like a strong person but sometimes it is better to admit that you don't feel strong and allow yourself to cry and take support from those who are close to you. You will probably feel better in the long run. I think most of us, as mothers, make the mistake of never putting ourselves first but you should try to if only for a little while :)
Cake's post is so well put and very true (of course, she would know too) :(
esher is so right about looking after yourself physically too.

dolcee- I am really into interiors and Plain English is exactly my style too, although at the moment I can only dream! I love the simplicity and classic nature of the design and the cool, calm colours.
If you prefer to go for something modern, I have seen a lovely kitchen (in a magazine) with a combination of walnut and stainless steel which was stunning too.

LTEC- thx for explaining re the rats. It's hard for me to imagine them from that picture but I am sure they look great on!

NY- will order the 30 day shred tonight.

bunny- all the best for tomorrow!