Having a bedroom dilemma we have a 3 bed house and SD 16 (lived here full time for 9 months ) has the small room to herself and my two SS15& 19 have the larger double EOW and half holidays etc some random nights too.
Issue is our Bio som now 4 starts school on sept and has always shared our room so the boys kept there own space etc but I now want to move him into this room permanently and they can still share when over.
I want a double bed with a pullout / trundle underneath. Currently it's bunk beds for the two elder but they are two old for these now.
Issue is the 19 year old is still staying all the time and I kind of figured he would stop / be away at uni so it would only be the 15 year old to cater for in terms of beds.
Any advice??
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18 and still coming every other weekend and lots of holidays
mommabear2386 · 12/06/2022 12:58
toomuchlaundry · 12/06/2022 18:18
How many rooms are there at the mum's?
@BaaCake if the DS has chosen local university I assume that is so he can stay with parents rather than having to pay accommodation fees
NeedAHoliday2021 · 12/06/2022 14:52
It’s pretty unusual for a 19yo to move out. I moved out aged 22 but that was young even then and that was 18 years ago.
Mummumtum · 13/06/2022 08:50
Is your room bigger? If so put the 3 boys on 1 bunk & 1 single in the biggest room and you take this funny shaped one for now
Youseethethingis1 · 13/06/2022 09:15
why should a 19year old bear the brunt of that decision
You could just as easily ask "why should a 4 year old have no bedroom in order for his adult sibling to have 2?"
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Mummumtum · 13/06/2022 09:03
why if you could and still have an adequate bedroom yourself wouldn’t you? I’m not suggesting the parents sleep on the couch.
I couldn’t imagine actively pushing a young adult DC to move out by making them feel unwelcome.
student funding/wages are low and rents are high. Unless the OP& his dad are offering to help fund this move out they are leaving him in a very uncomfortable situation.
OP was living in a 3 bed house with 5 people sharing the space already when they decided to have another child - why should a 19year old bear the brunt of that decision?
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