Claire Wheatley is DoF at the moment - she has had different job titles, but always at the top or near the top of the AWFC hierarchy. Edu is now in overall charge of the women's as well as the men's side, though.
I don't necessarily agree about the players you mention being ones that got away, I'm afraid.
LJ's attitude stank - her time at Man United under the disciplinarian Casey Stoney was required to sort her out. And she has a nasty streak, which I don't think is very Arsenal.
Jessica Naz is a good player but I don't think she's quite Arsenal standard. Or what Arsenal standard should be!
Ditto Parris. And I don't like her personally, either. She threw Eni Aluko under the bus, totally unnecessarily, during the Mark Sampson debacle. She has a great goalscoring record, used to be compared to the incomparable Vivianne Miedema - but people forget that half of Parris's goals were penalties, and Viv hardly ever took penalties.
So, sorry to disagree, but that's football, isn't it? 😁