After 15 years of marriage he has finally let me have a go.
Every so often the wax builds up. Normally it gets bad enough for him to be practically deaf in one ear - and only then will he finally use the olive oil and then see the nurse 10 days later for syringing. He has never let me accompany him to the nurse .
This time....he let me not only look....but.....help.....
It was amazing.
We got a special syringe-y thing from Amazon. Olive oil for a few days and then I set to it.
He is totally grossed out by the whole thing.
He allowed me to take photos of the results.
He knows I want to share it with my fellow sporners.
He thinks we are all utterly grim. 