My feed
Premium

Please
or
to access all these features

This topic is for sponsored discussions. If you'd like to run one with us, please email [email protected].

MNHQ have commented on this thread

Sponsored threads

Who do you turn to for the best parenting advice and why? Share with us and Nurofen for Children - £300 voucher prize draw! NOW CLOSED

399 replies

ZaneMumsnet · 12/02/2016 14:38

These days, parenting tips are available from a wealth of sources and sometimes it can be tricky to know who to listen to. The team at Nurofen for Children would love to hear who you turn to for the best parenting advice and why you trust or listen to them most of all.

Here's what Nurofen for Children says,"Being a parent is a wonderful life changing experience, full of challenges and triumphs at every stage. We understand seeking advice from a variety of sources is an important part of feeling confident in the decisions you make for your children, so we’d love to hear who you turn to for advice (and the reasons you love the tips they give)".

So please share on this thread your best sources of advice: whether it's a trusted friend who has been there and done that, your own mum, your health visitor, a magazine or blog, the content pages or talk boards on MN Wink etc. They'd also like to know why you love that source of advice so much - perhaps you could share the best advice you've been given and why it worked for you.

Everyone who posts on this thread will be entered into a prize draw where one mumsnetter will win a £300 Love2Shop voucher!

Thanks

MNHQ

Terms and conditions
-To enter the competition answer the question above
-To enter, you must be:
a) A UK resident; and b) 18 years old or over at the time of entry and c) a registered member of Mumsnet
-Competition closes at midnight on 26-2-2016
-Entries posted after the closing date will not be considered
-One winner will be chosen from all winning entries
-Mumsnet will choose the winner at random after the closing date
-Mumsnet will contact the winner privately to organise delivery of the prize
-The prize is £300 Love2Shop vouchers
-Full terms and conditions [[http://www.mumsnet.com/pdf/terms-and-conditions-for-survey-prize-draws-
v3.pdf here]]
Nurofen for Children 3 months to 9 years Orange / Strawberry. Nurofen for Children Orange / Strawberry 3 months to 12 years (weighing over 5kg). Contains Ibuprofen. For relief of fever. Always read the label.

Who do you turn to for the best parenting advice and why? Share with us and Nurofen for Children - £300 voucher prize draw! NOW CLOSED
OP posts:
Report
pfcpompeysarah · 13/02/2016 22:03

For health advice it would be my mum first to double check I am not over-reacting about something to do with DS, then I would check internet advice or seek medical advice from professionals. I think for any other parenting advice its my mum who is the one I ask, she always manages to reassure me and help with any issues I am struggling with.

Report
emms88 · 13/02/2016 22:03

My mum becaause she's got 4 and she's seen it all before.

Report
pennwood · 13/02/2016 22:13

When my Mum was alive she was a great source of information being in nursing for years. The health visitor was also very good for minor things, however my doctor always was consulted for any concerns out of the ordinary.

Report
compy99 · 13/02/2016 22:14

my late mother and father-in-laws they were very special and very wise on all things baby/child/life etc. we really miss them.

Report
TyrannosaurusBex · 13/02/2016 22:19

My parents died long before I had my DCs and I was the first of my social circle to have children, so I've found Mumsnet absolutely invaluable. I really felt that I'd found my people when I discovered it.

Report
shivbrown · 13/02/2016 22:21

I always turn to my mum first and then Google, Its actually quite refreshing putting your worries into Google and then hearing other mums going through the same thing and offering advice :) My mum is my bestfriend and always gives the best advice but I do like to ask allot of people, friends, forums etc just to get an idea of how many people are going through the same thing. Its amazing when you think you are alone.. all you have to do is talk to people and realise your going through it with lots of different mummies and daddies x

Report
robinson131 · 13/02/2016 22:47

I always ask my mam for advice, because if I'm half as good a mam as she has been to me I will be happy

Report
peanutmum111 · 13/02/2016 23:17

I turn to my own instincts first, they are my babies and children. I look around at other 'parenting' skills, see what works, collect all the ideas.
I use mumsnet, read, watch good TV programmes, after all I believe knowledge is power !!!!!!!!
Often there is no right or wrong, only oh that has worked this time with this child.
Believe in yourself but look and listen !!!!

Report
beckyinman · 13/02/2016 23:41

My mum and MumsNet

Report
farhanac · 13/02/2016 23:58

My mum because she will break it to me gently

Report
stewaris · 14/02/2016 07:21

Used to be my mum but she died 3 years ago. So now mainly close friends and I have a look at the threads on mumsnet to see if anyone has posted anything useful.

Report
sweir1 · 14/02/2016 07:25

My grandma as she has raised 7 kids

Report
createbeauty · 14/02/2016 07:28

I get advice from my mom and from my mother- and sister-in-laws. I listen to advice and if it sounds good, I'll go with it.
For medical advice, I always see a GP.

Report
nbaskers20 · 14/02/2016 07:50

I value the advice of my mother in law because she has brought up her two amazing sons and so I can't go wrong if I listen to her.

Report
DinosaursRoar · 14/02/2016 09:16

Mums net and friends with older dcs, not parents or pil, I tend to nod and smile at them....

Report
KeepOnPlodding · 14/02/2016 09:24

I found MN invaluable when DC was small. I would also ask my mum and my sister.

I had a huge collection of parenting books and with hindsight I should have saved my money.

The best advice I received... It's fine to ask people and canvas opinion but trust your instinct.

Report
bobistheboss · 14/02/2016 10:05

My mum is the person I trust the most for advice, any medical issues I would contact my GP who knows us as a family and has done for many years

Report
StickChildNumberTwo · 14/02/2016 10:35

Depends what I need advice on, but mostly friends with kids who are the same age or slightly older and so have been through similar things recently.

Report
ButterflyOfFreedom · 14/02/2016 11:02

It varies but usually friends (other mums) especially those with children a similar age or older to mine.

Mumsnet is a good source of information too.

Report
Elizasmum02 · 14/02/2016 11:03

my mother or sister in law, they are amazing inspiring women ad wonderful parents

Report
HelenPlant · 14/02/2016 11:11

My mum is great for advice.....failing that, I have loads of friends who are succeeding at parenthood, so they're always good to ask.

Report
samcornfield · 14/02/2016 11:45

Having had four children ranging in age from 23 down to 9 I don't ask for advice very often any more. My Mum is where I went for advice when my first one was small though.

Report

Don’t want to miss threads like this?

Weekly

Sign up to our weekly round up and get all the best threads sent straight to your inbox!

Log in to update your newsletter preferences.

You've subscribed!

emmamed123 · 14/02/2016 15:16

I turn to my nan, she has years of experience.

Report
cheryl100 · 14/02/2016 15:19

I always turn to my Mum because she listens and gives me solid, balanced advice

Report
mo3733 · 14/02/2016 16:52

i turn tomy mum because she has had six kids of her own and also her old fashioned ways are sometimes the best

Report
Please create an account

To comment on this thread you need to create a Mumsnet account.