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Kirstygingee · 15/11/2025 17:22

MR- Mandatory Reconsideration
NC- New Claim
COC- Change of Circumstances
SD- Scan Date
LRC- Low Rate Care
MRC- Middle Rate Care
HRC- High Rate Care
LRM- Lower Rate Mobility
HRM- Higher Rate Mobility

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Emsychap · 17/12/2025 18:46

Emzi538 · 17/12/2025 18:38

I hate the lack of response or lack of set time frames from them!
I did call them earlier, went through security q etc told her why I was calling and the line went dead! Ugh

They know as a general rule if it’s backdate Dla due to whatever reason it’ll be accepted so why not just ask for an upload of the letter with dates and click a button to back pay. It’s crazy

Emzi538 · 17/12/2025 18:48

Emsychap · 17/12/2025 18:46

They know as a general rule if it’s backdate Dla due to whatever reason it’ll be accepted so why not just ask for an upload of the letter with dates and click a button to back pay. It’s crazy

So it took almost 2 weeks after change 2 verify, a week after that 4 accepting of reason 4 change now nothing

Mum0 · 18/12/2025 10:32

Hi everyone I am new on here. Anyone have any updates on MR

Kirsty3kids · 18/12/2025 10:44

hi everyone am having trouble with UC verifying my daughter they have sent me a message on my Jornal saying I need to put different dates in anybody else had this and also do I need to change anything on my other kids but they haven’t changed I’m totally confused thanks if anyone can help x

Red1991 · 18/12/2025 10:56

Princessmom222 · 17/12/2025 10:30

Yeah i know what you mean, i didnt even know you could get dla for your autistic children and only applied 2 years ago for my oldest. The cost of everything is so much and if your child is entitled to the help you should definitely take the help as it only benefits them in the long run. I got mine through my health visitor so maybe see if you can make an appointment to see her and ask her to be refered for one. They do help in ensuring everything is right for your child and the school have the right tools to be able to help your child thrive.
It seems like they must be coming down a bit for everyone, hopefully they keep up with it and everyone else who is waiting is able to get seen too quicker. I hope your MR doesnt take too long for you and your able to get the support for him. I know what you mean about the sensory toys as they do really help autistic children. I was hoping to be able to buy some new cots for my twins as they seem to keep hurting themselves on the ones they have got. I feel like they need some specialist cots to prevent them being able to harm themselves. But the cheapest ones ive seen are lile 700 each and i just dont have that sort of money xx

Omg £700 that is a lot!!! It’s actually disgusting that things for Sen kids are super pricey it’s a Pisstake slap sensory in front of something charge stupid amounts I don’t think you will be waiting much longer if deffo call them today or tomorrow hopefully they have made a decision for you I sent off mr documents yesterday signed for any my daughters new claim so let’s see how long this all takes again fingers crossed for us all x

Lynseyxx · 18/12/2025 11:09

I rang this morning and was told they have completely took the time frames away and can’t tell anyone any time frames.

Mammybear3 · 18/12/2025 12:01

Kirsty3kids · 18/12/2025 10:44

hi everyone am having trouble with UC verifying my daughter they have sent me a message on my Jornal saying I need to put different dates in anybody else had this and also do I need to change anything on my other kids but they haven’t changed I’m totally confused thanks if anyone can help x

I put my award in to my uc 2nd January theve only just verified her yesterday wrote in for backdate of carers element yesterday no message back so wrote the same again today still no reply there time frames are ridiculous atm

Ncheetham01 · 18/12/2025 12:13

Just called for an update nc sd 1/10 and nothing not even with a dm. I dont understand how loads are getting done from dates after and why they can't just fo them in order its a joke. Would be soo much easier if you could do everything online. Anyone else still waiting on nc

Princessmom222 · 18/12/2025 12:16

Ncheetham01 · 18/12/2025 12:13

Just called for an update nc sd 1/10 and nothing not even with a dm. I dont understand how loads are getting done from dates after and why they can't just fo them in order its a joke. Would be soo much easier if you could do everything online. Anyone else still waiting on nc

Yes, my NC is 27/08 xc

Princessmom222 · 18/12/2025 12:22

Red1991 · 18/12/2025 10:56

Omg £700 that is a lot!!! It’s actually disgusting that things for Sen kids are super pricey it’s a Pisstake slap sensory in front of something charge stupid amounts I don’t think you will be waiting much longer if deffo call them today or tomorrow hopefully they have made a decision for you I sent off mr documents yesterday signed for any my daughters new claim so let’s see how long this all takes again fingers crossed for us all x

I know its disgusting, everything for SEN children is so expensive. I really hope im not waiting much longer, i rang yesterday to ask if i had time to send off the documents id recieved and he told me i had to get it in ASAP preferably within 48 hours as i should be getting a decision within the next week. But if its not done by christmas it will be the week after christmas. I would love for it to be done before, but for me i reckon it will be after.
Oh thats good at least your getting the ball rolling with your MR you will have to let me know the outcome. Il be on here for a while with my MR and COC anyway haha. What scan date is your NC? Xx

Emsychap · 18/12/2025 12:26

Mum0 · 18/12/2025 10:32

Hi everyone I am new on here. Anyone have any updates on MR

Edited

Mr is 12/06 for my daughter nothing yet. I’ve seen some this week from late May - end of June get awarded so some time around there

Ncheetham01 · 18/12/2025 12:34

Princessmom222 · 18/12/2025 12:16

Yes, my NC is 27/08 xc

Honestly its the worst thing all the waiting. I waited for my other sons for about 25 weeks. Im also waiting on a renewal that ends 26thfeb but sent forms back 8th oct. Let me know if you hear anything. Was hoping for before Christmas to actually breath for a minute lol

Mum0 · 18/12/2025 12:43

MR scan date 02/06

Princessmom222 · 18/12/2025 13:05

Ncheetham01 · 18/12/2025 12:34

Honestly its the worst thing all the waiting. I waited for my other sons for about 25 weeks. Im also waiting on a renewal that ends 26thfeb but sent forms back 8th oct. Let me know if you hear anything. Was hoping for before Christmas to actually breath for a minute lol

The waiting is horrible, and its the not knowing if they are going to be accepted or not especially if you know they should be entitled to it. I waited 5 months for my other daughter at the beginning of this year for her to be declined but ive done a MR with a lot more evidence now.
Your renewal will probably be done just before his award is supposed to end. But i will let you know i was hoping before christmas. When i rang yesterday i was told it is very close and to send my evidence within 48 hours and i should recieve my decision within a week. If not will be week after christmas but im thinking will be after. But as soon as i hear anything i will let you know xx

Kirsty3kids · 18/12/2025 13:27

Mammybear3 · 18/12/2025 12:01

I put my award in to my uc 2nd January theve only just verified her yesterday wrote in for backdate of carers element yesterday no message back so wrote the same again today still no reply there time frames are ridiculous atm

I rang up as it was getting me confused they helped over the phone but still have to wait for it to be verified do you have to ask for the additional elements or do they automatically do it x

Mammybear3 · 18/12/2025 15:32

Kirsty3kids · 18/12/2025 13:27

I rang up as it was getting me confused they helped over the phone but still have to wait for it to be verified do you have to ask for the additional elements or do they automatically do it x

There so confusing arnt they I’m not to sure I asked just had a message on me jornal saying apologies I have been awwy from the office my backdated child element will be in my account on the 22nd

Kirsty3kids · 18/12/2025 16:24

Mammybear3 · 18/12/2025 15:32

There so confusing arnt they I’m not to sure I asked just had a message on me jornal saying apologies I have been awwy from the office my backdated child element will be in my account on the 22nd

wow how quick hopefully she gets verified tomorrow and it’s all sorted I get myself all worked up with stuff like this 🫣

Mammybear3 · 18/12/2025 16:56

Kirsty3kids · 18/12/2025 16:24

wow how quick hopefully she gets verified tomorrow and it’s all sorted I get myself all worked up with stuff like this 🫣

I only waited 10 days last year for my oldest that was including backdating took them 2 weeks to verify my youngest I hate it make me anxious fingers crossed for you hun x

Emzi538 · 18/12/2025 20:43

Mammybear3 · 18/12/2025 15:32

There so confusing arnt they I’m not to sure I asked just had a message on me jornal saying apologies I have been awwy from the office my backdated child element will be in my account on the 22nd

I rang uc today after u commented 2 me on other thread
They have til 6pm 22nd to contact me... not holding my breath!!!

Red1991 · 18/12/2025 21:27

Princessmom222 · 18/12/2025 12:22

I know its disgusting, everything for SEN children is so expensive. I really hope im not waiting much longer, i rang yesterday to ask if i had time to send off the documents id recieved and he told me i had to get it in ASAP preferably within 48 hours as i should be getting a decision within the next week. But if its not done by christmas it will be the week after christmas. I would love for it to be done before, but for me i reckon it will be after.
Oh thats good at least your getting the ball rolling with your MR you will have to let me know the outcome. Il be on here for a while with my MR and COC anyway haha. What scan date is your NC? Xx

Ooo that sounds good tbh I hope they have made the decision this week and ur paid Christmas Eve or something at least you know it’s closer to coming anyway and yes I wrote in the notes that I don’t think anyone has even looked at anything properly or even at all and they haven’t even contacted my sons nursery so you made a decision off of what exactly 😭well I sent it for next day delivery and I am going to check if it’s been signed for after I been thru this thread I will call Monday to make sure they have it lol x

Princessmom222 · 18/12/2025 21:45

Thank you hun, me too but im definitely not holding my breath haha well good and if you can get as much evidence as you can together before your MR is looked into the better!
Im going to call tomorrow and see if wvidence has got there and see if a decision has been made but i do very much doubt it xx

Princessmom222 · 18/12/2025 21:52

Princessmom222 · 18/12/2025 21:45

Thank you hun, me too but im definitely not holding my breath haha well good and if you can get as much evidence as you can together before your MR is looked into the better!
Im going to call tomorrow and see if wvidence has got there and see if a decision has been made but i do very much doubt it xx

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@Red1991

Mammybear3 · 19/12/2025 10:25

Emzi538 · 18/12/2025 20:43

I rang uc today after u commented 2 me on other thread
They have til 6pm 22nd to contact me... not holding my breath!!!

They should contact you I think they took a while with mine as the worker had been away from the office fingers crossed for you

Emzi538 · 19/12/2025 10:26

Mammybear3 · 19/12/2025 10:25

They should contact you I think they took a while with mine as the worker had been away from the office fingers crossed for you

Still waiting :-/

Mammybear3 · 19/12/2025 10:28

Emzi538 · 19/12/2025 10:26

Still waiting :-/

really there absolutley taking the mik have you wrote on your jornal again

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