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ProudZebra · 12/04/2025 22:25

NC - new claim
COC - change of circumstances
MR - mandatory reconsideration
SD - scan date

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Weezzy · 15/04/2025 10:24

NC 24/1 ❤️

Hdbella · 15/04/2025 10:43

Ive just received a text message saying a decision has been made but doesnt say what the decision is 😩 sais wait for a letter is this a decline? X

LoudAquaViper · 15/04/2025 10:46

Hdbella · 15/04/2025 10:43

Ive just received a text message saying a decision has been made but doesnt say what the decision is 😩 sais wait for a letter is this a decline? X

Call them on option 4 and they will be able to tell you the decision :)

LoudAquaViper · 15/04/2025 10:50

Hdbella · 15/04/2025 10:43

Ive just received a text message saying a decision has been made but doesnt say what the decision is 😩 sais wait for a letter is this a decline? X

Was it a NC? If so what was your SD?

Hdbella · 15/04/2025 11:00

LoudAquaViper · 15/04/2025 10:50

Was it a NC? If so what was your SD?

No its a mr and was 8/10 x

Curlycookie5 · 15/04/2025 11:01

Hdbella · 15/04/2025 10:43

Ive just received a text message saying a decision has been made but doesnt say what the decision is 😩 sais wait for a letter is this a decline? X

On previous threads some have been decline but some have also been a award so I would call to double check

LoudAquaViper · 15/04/2025 11:02

Hdbella · 15/04/2025 11:00

No its a mr and was 8/10 x

I hope it’s good news! Mines a NC SD 18/12. Seen a lot of people go to DM early last week with a SD of 12/12 so I’m hoping we go to a DM this week. So so nervous

Foreverlearning88 · 15/04/2025 11:12

If it's a positive outcome, do they always send payment before they let you know?

Foreverlearning88 · 15/04/2025 11:13

LoudAquaViper · 15/04/2025 11:02

I hope it’s good news! Mines a NC SD 18/12. Seen a lot of people go to DM early last week with a SD of 12/12 so I’m hoping we go to a DM this week. So so nervous

There's on just gone on fb group from mid January been awarded so it's very random with the dates

LoudAquaViper · 15/04/2025 11:15

Foreverlearning88 · 15/04/2025 11:13

There's on just gone on fb group from mid January been awarded so it's very random with the dates

I really don’t understand how they work through it. I saw some on the last thread on here from early Jan being seen and awarded. It’s really frustrating to see. Amazing people are getting awarded but frustrating for others who have a scan date a month before them

Foreverlearning88 · 15/04/2025 11:16

LoudAquaViper · 15/04/2025 11:15

I really don’t understand how they work through it. I saw some on the last thread on here from early Jan being seen and awarded. It’s really frustrating to see. Amazing people are getting awarded but frustrating for others who have a scan date a month before them

Does make you wonder how or why it's done in no sort of order

Mommaof2babas · 15/04/2025 11:17

Foreverlearning88 · 15/04/2025 11:12

If it's a positive outcome, do they always send payment before they let you know?

Sometimes It can happen, if you don't receive a text message you will get money before the letter but if you receive the text that'll be first before payment! Hope this helps!

LoudAquaViper · 15/04/2025 11:17

Foreverlearning88 · 15/04/2025 11:16

Does make you wonder how or why it's done in no sort of order

100% agree. I just thought they would go through it day by day etc. i would understand if it was with a DM and waiting further evidence or something but when it’s not even with a DM yet and others have been awarded with a SD of Jan time it’s making me more nervous

370Sunshine123 · 15/04/2025 11:19

NC 19/12- spoke to them yesterday about further information I had sent and said no decision had been made or with DM yet, he said May / June but looking at others dates must be sooner!

Foreverlearning88 · 15/04/2025 11:19

LoudAquaViper · 15/04/2025 11:17

100% agree. I just thought they would go through it day by day etc. i would understand if it was with a DM and waiting further evidence or something but when it’s not even with a DM yet and others have been awarded with a SD of Jan time it’s making me more nervous

I only worry as I reckon I messed up my form and didn't put half the stuff I meant to as I was dealing with her having a horrific night, as she always does, but it was exceptionally bad that evening and my head wasn't in the game, silly time to do the forms I know but I was determined then so ive sent in 2 lots of additional statements and evidence from preschool since and hope they've got those but I cant be arsed to ring up and check 🤣

Hdbella · 15/04/2025 11:20

Its a decline 😩 so upset been a year in total, anybody know the next steps and how long it takes x

Foreverlearning88 · 15/04/2025 11:21

Mommaof2babas · 15/04/2025 11:17

Sometimes It can happen, if you don't receive a text message you will get money before the letter but if you receive the text that'll be first before payment! Hope this helps!

Thanks. So it seems throughout the whole process there is no straight forward process 🤣 if it wasn't such a tense time it would be quite exciting to be kept on your toes to not know what might happen with letter, text, payment, timescales 🤣🤣

LoudAquaViper · 15/04/2025 11:22

Foreverlearning88 · 15/04/2025 11:19

I only worry as I reckon I messed up my form and didn't put half the stuff I meant to as I was dealing with her having a horrific night, as she always does, but it was exceptionally bad that evening and my head wasn't in the game, silly time to do the forms I know but I was determined then so ive sent in 2 lots of additional statements and evidence from preschool since and hope they've got those but I cant be arsed to ring up and check 🤣

As long as you put the child’s name and reference number they should’ve recorded it. I sent all mine special delivery so I know they received it 😂 I only had 1 report from the health visitor then just loads of referrals. On top of that a statement from myself of what I need to deal with day and night. I feel like it’s no where near enough considering what I have read others put on here. I’m already thinking about an MR route which is stressing me out completely! It’s a horrible process

Tiredmum25 · 15/04/2025 11:23

370Sunshine123 · 15/04/2025 11:19

NC 19/12- spoke to them yesterday about further information I had sent and said no decision had been made or with DM yet, he said May / June but looking at others dates must be sooner!

I have SD 11/12 and mine was with decision maker on Friday & yesterday I called & was still with them.

Foreverlearning88 · 15/04/2025 11:24

LoudAquaViper · 15/04/2025 11:22

As long as you put the child’s name and reference number they should’ve recorded it. I sent all mine special delivery so I know they received it 😂 I only had 1 report from the health visitor then just loads of referrals. On top of that a statement from myself of what I need to deal with day and night. I feel like it’s no where near enough considering what I have read others put on here. I’m already thinking about an MR route which is stressing me out completely! It’s a horrible process

Yeah i went in very placid about it at the start before realising you had to be very specific. I should have joined these groups before. I still keep thinking things I should have added but we will see

LoudAquaViper · 15/04/2025 11:25

Foreverlearning88 · 15/04/2025 11:24

Yeah i went in very placid about it at the start before realising you had to be very specific. I should have joined these groups before. I still keep thinking things I should have added but we will see

Yep I’m exactly the same. I forgot to take pictures of the application as well which was so silly of me!

Foreverlearning88 · 15/04/2025 11:28

LoudAquaViper · 15/04/2025 11:25

Yep I’m exactly the same. I forgot to take pictures of the application as well which was so silly of me!

Me too. I have no idea what I wrote on the initial one. It was such a challenge it was just a relief to finish it 🤣

LoudAquaViper · 15/04/2025 11:29

Foreverlearning88 · 15/04/2025 11:28

Me too. I have no idea what I wrote on the initial one. It was such a challenge it was just a relief to finish it 🤣

It really was nice getting to the end. Headache of filling it all in then the headache of waiting anywhere from 18-25 weeks then the possibility of another 25 weeks on top with a MR is killing me inside.

Foreverlearning88 · 15/04/2025 11:33

LoudAquaViper · 15/04/2025 11:29

It really was nice getting to the end. Headache of filling it all in then the headache of waiting anywhere from 18-25 weeks then the possibility of another 25 weeks on top with a MR is killing me inside.

Absolutely. Let's hope it doesn't come to that! It's feels horrible only focusing on the negatives of your little one

Nidfor · 15/04/2025 11:34

COC SD 21/10

Been waiting to get through for 35 mins now hoping they answer soon

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