Hi all,
SD 12/12 so a long wait ahead for us. And sorry... long post below!
I have a couple of questions. Firstly, my partner has suddenly been made redundant since I filled out the form. We don’t currently get any form of income support but are waiting to see if we can get UC now. Money is worryingly tight. Is my partner losing his job something that I need to update the DLA people about now or do they not want to know about that stuff? Or do they only need to know if we get UC?
My second question is about 14 yo DS who has been diagnosed with ADHD and also has communication issues. When I sent the form off, I filled out loads of extra pages about what he’s like to live with. He’s doing ok academically (so I worry that this will go against us) but at home he is just a constant whirlwind of chaos. He’s very immature for his age and we have to constantly supervise him as he has no concept of time, no sense of danger, inability to follow instructions, impulsive, always breaking things etc, etc, etc. I love him to bits but it is exhausting!
Here's the thing: Last night I was shocked to find 2 sharp kitchen knives that have been missing for a while hidden in his bedroom. He’d hidden a third on the kids bookcase where they could have easily taken his younger siblings fingers off because of how it was hidden. He wanted to whittle sticks with them apparently. I know he means no harm but he just doesn't think and could easily have seriously injured himself and/ or the other kids too.
I’ve already told the DLA about how he likes to play with matches in his bedroom given half the chance but I’m wondering if the knives thing is worth updating the DLA about or should I just leave it as I've already send off lots of pages?
Interested to know what you knowledgeable lot think!
Thanks in advance.